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  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:28 PM
    zooropa1985
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    In this case, is there anything the girl you stare at can do to make you feel less shy, not look away, and most of all not spend the next 5 minutes beating yourself up (I guess this happens each time you stare at her, look away, etc., right?)?

    Better yet, is there anything she can do to help you out and so that you can go and actually say something to her, instead of JUST staring? :rolleyes:

    Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

    You see the reason I turn away is because I don't want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:29 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    but r u sure u won't stare at ugly chicks???:confused:

    Just wondering... Why are you so persistent on this question concerning "ugly chicks"? :eek: Is there a reason?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:31 PM
    zooropa1985
    By the way ladeez, while we are gathered here alone, lol, what do you think of my pic :)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:31 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

    you see the reason i turn away is because i dont want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.

    OK, but...

    What if she's shy too?

    What if she just doesn't dare to smile at you?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:31 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

    you see the reason i turn away is because i dont want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.

    Thank you for telling us that! But what if I am a friendly person and I smile all the time? To everyone:confused:... It's important to be nice!:) do u think he will still get it that I am intersted in him?:confused:
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:33 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    Thank you for telling us that! But what if I am a friendly person and I smile all the time?! to everyone:confused: ...It's important to be nice!:) do u think he will still get it that I am intersted in him?:confused:

    Do you smile at strangers? All the time?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:33 PM
    zooropa1985
    OK OK

    First off if she is shy too then that's a problem. I honestly think sometimes you got to have the guts to go up and say "hows it goin"

    Oh and if you smile and look at the guy then yes I'm sure he will get it, either that or he can't read signs too well
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:34 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    Do you smile at strangers? All the time?

    no... I mean... at school, I pretty much know everyone, so I smile to everyone kind of. It's not a big school, and people are all very friendly anyway.:)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:34 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    btw ladeez, while we are gathered here alone, lol, what do you think of my pic :)

    Is that you? :D

    Duhh
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:37 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    no...I mean ...at school, I pretty much know everyone, so I smile to everyone kinda of. It's not a big school, and ppl are all very friendly anyway.:)

    Ah okay. :) Got it.

    So there is a guy in your school who's always staring at you, not smiling, only staring; you might be interested in him and you wonder why is he staring, hoping he might be crazy about you. :p Right?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:38 PM
    zooropa1985
    Why yes it is lol
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:39 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    Ah okay. :) Got it.

    So there is a guy in your school who's always staring at you, not smiling, only staring; you might be interested in him and you wonder why is he staring, hoping he might be crazy about you. :p Right?

    Well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused... :confused:
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:42 PM
    zooropa1985
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused...:confused:

    Ahh that must mean you are fine looking in which case I demand you fly over here and go out with me

    :)
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:44 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused...:confused:

    But you're not interested in all of them, are you? :p
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:45 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    ahh that must mean you are fine lookin in which case i demand you fly over here and go out with me

    :)

    But how about Huno and GEOFF... PLANE? :confused: Are you british? Hum... :rolleyes: I think I love that...
    P.S. I think you look handsome, and seems like a guy that would like to be bullied by me... :D
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:46 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kristynn
    But you're not interested in all of them, are you? :p

    No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:47 PM
    zooropa1985
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    but how about Huno and GEOFF...PLANE??:confused: Are you british??Hum...:rolleyes: I think I love that...
    P.S. I think you look handsome, and seems like a guy that would like to be bullied by me...:D


    Nope I'm irish and yea ill be bullied by you lol I'm pretty easy going

    And thanks
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:49 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D

    Then why make such a fuss out of it? :p As I said, they think you're nice to look at so they look at you. They can't help it.

    Just go and talk to them.

    Show them that you're confident and not mortally afraid to go talk to them, the way they seem to be. All right? :p
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:49 PM
    woh337
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    nope im irish and yea ill be bullied by ya lol im pretty easy goin

    and thanks

    Where are you at then? :rolleyes: in England?
  • Jul 2, 2007, 01:49 PM
    kristynn
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by woh337
    No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D

    You forgot zooropa :D

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