Great news-have a happy life!

Go nc & stop putting your life on hold for someone that's not all in.
I agree with the dons here.
Cat put it so nicely.

Sounds like you can't let go.
Its up to you. Always was, always will.
You aren't the only one.

Time for a new chapter w/o her in it.

Whattaya say?

vanheart, did you see howareutoday's update? It's great news, isn't it? :)

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Originally Posted by howareutoday134

Hello,

I know no one ever comes back here after the fact and tells their story so here it goes. Take their advice to heart whatever the other person says is always for their benefit not yours. Run away as fast as possible and stick with no contact because it will control your life. I personally have moved on and found a great girl that cares about me and respects me and with whom im going to marry. For all of you out there who are going through a similar situation my best advice is run run away and stick with no contact its not worth the pain and suffering I went through. Hope this tid bit helps someone

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howareutoday, I am glad you have moved forward with your life and found someone to share it with.

Congratulations to both of you and may you have many wonderful years together. :)

Yes it is. Sorry didn't see that.