Why would she think I'm a man if I don't answer? It will just fire her right up even more..
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Why would she think I'm a man if I don't answer? It will just fire her right up even more..
Because it takes a man to be strong enough not to dance to every tune she plays.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
She'll think you're a man because you're no longer putting up with her crap. Men don't lie down and let someone walk all over them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
I don't know how shed think I'm a man, because when I do answer she will flip tomorrow. I put up w her crap because she's going through a lot and I love her to death and will do whatever it takes
Now she said.. "hello, what are you doing"
You are trying to HELP her get past that crap. Remember, you won't communicate with her until 9 p.m. Tuesday -- or at least 12 hrs from when we started these posts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Where do you live, by the way?
O god, I left my Facebook on. She just messaged me on there
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Why are you still looking at the phone? Turn it off, put it away, go take a bath or a shower, read a book, whatever it takes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Stop looking at her messages, obviously you can't handle it.
Don't reply.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
She's messaging me 2 ways now.. tell me the good that will come if I don't. Because I want to so bad. I think that if I don't she will leave me for good
She will not! I guarantee it!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Now she says
"hello why do u hate me and wont talk to me?"
Don't answer. Ignore her.
Now she said
"god ur such a D*ck right now"
Should I update my status on Facebook? So she knows I'm there? And didn't like fall asleep
No. We don't want her to know where you are.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
O god, she said I can forget about "us" if I don't answer. She said I'm dead serious
O god quick help do I answer? I don't want her to be done!!
No, she's not. She's pulling your strings.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
It will show I don't care if were done if I don't answer! That's what she will say!
She said she's EFFIN DEAD SERIOUS
O god, she said were officially done forever, good bye u a*s
Don't answer.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Wow... that is a lot to read...
Steve... I've been there... more than once... if she is playing these games with u, and flipping around from day to day, can you imagine how a future with her in your life will be? Do you think it will be good?
Think about it. If she stops behaving like this, there may be a chance, but she needs to work this out for herself, get herself right.
You have to be strong. If she is not acting right now, don't go crawling back to her if she tells you she is seriously breaking pu with you if you don't reply to her. That's so wrong.
I don't think you did anything to deserve this, so she needs to sort herself out and come to you. If she doesn't, then its for the best, because trust me, you don't want to be with someone like this. You deserve better. No matter how much you think you love someone, this just is not right.
Thanks man, she hasn't replied since she said were done and over forever if you don't answer. I'm really worried that she's serious :(
She's not serious. In fact, she's worried, and that's good.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
How do you know she's not serious? Why would she say that then? Its going to bug me all night now. I don't know how or what I will say to her tommorro nightQuote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Why is she calling me names then because I don't asnwer? Now she said...
"hun can't believe ur ending it like this"
Excuse me, not HUN... she said HUH
She said that because it is what a puppet master / manipulator says.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Can you not reply to her all day on Tues?
I thought she said it was over. Why is she still texting you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
She said I can't believe your ending it like this..
But now it really is over that's what she said
Yeah, right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Don't answer her.
See? She said "Its over, goodbye" and stuff, then she comes back to you and asked you why you are doing this
She needs to take some time out and see what you are doing and why you are doing it.
She needs to see that you are not replying to her because you are hurt and she has been hurting you, that she is not right and she needs to work herself out. Then maybe you will talk to her and be with her again, if you choose
So talking to her now and replying to her is not going to give her to chance to see and think about what she is doing wrong.
What is she thinking right now? Ahh god.
She's calling me now!!
Hopefully she is thinking:Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
"Oh no, I've gone too far and now he won't talk to me again. What have I done? Am I that bad to him? Maybe I am. What can I do to make him talk to me again?"
She is right where we want her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
How will she realize what's she's doing wrong? She will just be like UR THE BIGGEST A*hole IN THE WORLD WOW HOW COULD U DO THIS
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