Originally Posted by
JudyKayTee
"You people"?
Your threads were merged because one provides history for the other. You cannot reinvent yourself on AMHD.
It's all been said - you are playing, "I'm in charge, no, I'm in charge" in the bedroom, possibly in all other aspects of your life.
You've been going to let her know you're serious for how many days? If you played the "I'm serious and so you'd better ..." card with her and she still keeps on keeping on, why are you there?
What are you not understanding about what's been said to you?
My thinking - first girlfriend, first sex, hard to let go and start all over again.