Ask Me Help Desk - Still in love with my ex boyfriend

People here have told you that. I just told you that. Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor and be glad this boy is out of your life.

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Originally Posted by Heartache402

I've been followinf your story and in the very initials i supported you too. But you're right Judy. What was your purpose of posting your problem on this site, when you had to ignore all the opinions , support and evrything? You wanted sympathy? Or do you really want someone to crib and cry over you that don't suicide. I was in a abusive relationship , i posted my problem , experts gave me there advise , i understood them ,followed them Imbibed them ... And this is how it goes. But seems like you've been adamantly stuck upon one single thought. I.e. suicide. Will you call it bravery to kill yourself for a fool , just for the sake of REVENGE? I may sound rude , but i will call it sheer MADNESS. Ok today
You kill a self for a loser , how long do you think will it leave an impact on him a day ? A week? A month? But then he'll forget it & move on in his life & what did you do , you WASTED your life & your death ! Yes u got that right you'll just Waste it. The one who does not care now , wont carr in the future too. You are being stupid.
Why don't you just try , try living a hard life for sometime? I don't think killing is better than trying is it? May be you get your prince charming on the path of trying rather than suiciding. Suicide is an act done by cowards. There is absolutely no bravery in this.Though u need professional help but since you
can't seek professional help , ok! But atleast You can help yourself . Be a little flexible . Or open to the long list of opinions that have been given to you on this site.
Cribbing onto one thing will do no good. You are just harming yourself more by this attitude.
Start being positive.
Remember , god help those who help themselves.
Similar is the situation with humans. Your friends and everyone. We all can suggest you. But if you will give a deaf ear to everything that everybody says . No one will stand by you , in your support .
Grow up, you're just a kiddo!

Im about to tell my parents about evreything this is the right way

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

People here have told you that. I just told you that. Stop lying to your parents, talk to a counselor and be glad this boy is out of your life.

. Today I'm going to tell my parents about him

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Originally Posted by princess messi

What to you saying i don't need any attention all i need someone can say to me step by step what i should do

We've told you step by step. I don't think you need someone to brush your teeth, get dressed, talk to your parents.

Stop posting suicide threats and do something. I'd print this entire thread out and hand it to your parents as part of your "talk" with them.

I trust you'll be back to tell us what they say - ?

[QUOTE=JudyKayTee;3239587]We've told you step by step. I don't think you need someone to brush your teeth, get dressed, talk to your parents.

Stop posting suicide threats and do something. I'd print this entire thread out and hand it to your parents as part of your "talk" with them.

I trust you'll be back to tell us what they say - ?

I told my mom she hugs me she ask about him and she say " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry

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Originally Posted by princess messi

i told my mom she hugs me she ask about him and she say " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry

I still think you are playing games - I simply find it impossible to believe that in exactly 35 minutes you had time to sit down and have a talk with your mother, explain the situation, get past why you lied to her, have a hugging and crying conversation, tell her you want to kill yourself over him and get back onto AMHD to post what happened.

It's taken you 30 posts - 30 of your posts - to explain the situation here.

Sorry - you are playing with us.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I still think you are playing games - I simply find it impossible to believe that in exactly 35 minutes you had time to sit down and have a talk with your mother, explain the situation, get past why you lied to her, have a hugging and crying conversation, tell her you want to kill yourself over him and get back onto AMHD to post what happened.

It's taken you 30 posts - 30 of your posts - to explain the situation here.

Sorry - you are playing with us.

I don't tell my mom I'm going to kill myself my I told my mom about him she know from the begin that I'm lying and dating him in secret don't be so rude to tell me I'm playing gameees OK?

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Originally Posted by princess messi

I don't tell my mom im gonna kill my self my i told my mom about him she know from the begin that im lying and dating him in secret don't be so rude to tell me im playing gameees ok?

You asked for advice - that's what you got. Tell your parents the whole story. You came back and said you talked to your Mom. There simply wasn't time for a big discussion. Read what YOU posted: "Im about to tell my parents about evreything this is the right way" Instead, that's not what happened. It did get any heat off you, though. You are playing.

So you are suicidal and didn't tell anyone.

I think you are both playing and not being truthful. You aren't honest with your parents. Why would I think you're honest with a bunch of strangers.

You didn't tell your mother you are suicidal. You just said you have been dating behind her back, love this person, he's ended it, and her response was, " im here for you i can't let anything happend 2 you " then starting to cry." That seems rather over the top. She can't let anything happen to you? What does she think is going to happen to you?

It's a public board. Expect a variety of opinions.

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Originally Posted by princess messi

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting

You are very immature and rude young lady. It is hard to take someone like you seriously.

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Originally Posted by princess messi

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting

I've asked that the thread be closed - you are asking for help. You just aren't doing anything constructive with the advice.

If you do decide to commit suicide I think it's best that AMHD not be involved.

(I assume that "I'm not acting like you acting" means -? )

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Originally Posted by princess messi

Atlest im asking for help ;) im not like you acting

But are you trying to improve based on the help you have been given?

I'm at the same point Judy is--ready to give up on you. Now, why would that be?

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