Cool I like that thanks again for the second go round with me
I'll give it a shot that's all I can do but I no you and I left on a note like this a few
Months ago and I most def tried but when is enough? I never instantly swell up on him its more of like weeks go by of this behavior and I hold my breathe and one day I can't take it anymore and confront him.Should I just keep ignoring it?

When most of us humans have had enough we quit caring. Then things will die on there own, or sometimes we take more drastic steps, like leaving. That's a shame, but it happens all the time.

Yes very true I'm trying to get to the ( don't care anymore) stage but something in me gets all messed up sometimes so I guess I'll just keep trying to stay calm, crap! Keep you posted

That's great, and good luck, as staying cool, calm, and collected when things are really going crazy (especially those intense emotion), allows you to see things differently.

This is YOUR problem (your feelings, attitude, and emotions, for YOU to control), and you cannot change him, and solve YOUR problem, so change yourself.

Sounds good , things have been better just untie past 2 days , I'm trying like heck to disregard all of the emotions keep me in your thoughts to help me find the strength thanks again talk atcha later