I'm a woman and I think it's great for a man to take the initiative and kiss a woman.

Don't think too much - you'll destroy the moment - just do it!

sigh

That would be romantic...


..but that's just my [romatically starved] opinion.

I'm a woman and my reply is yes.

Give her a kiss. It is the most natural thing for lips to do.

I'm 28 and she is 30.

Great age to start smooching!
Does she seem like she is waiting for you to make the first move? Or has there been talk of friendship instead of romance?

For sure I have to make the first move, def. romance but like I said in the beginning of this thread,

I am a girl and an adult. And Yes, we like to be the one being kissed first. See after that... we can just up and kiss you whenever we want.:)

OK THANKS today though before I dropped her off at home I said that I think she is doing a fine job at keeping me off her again, she replied with well what's going on in your mind, I said back to her that I'm dropping you off now and I know we hug but that doesn't mean I don't want to slowly kiss up your neck and nibble on your ear and stuff, it wasn't uncomfortable.

I should do it alread?

Everybody always says that after you hug her hold her and look into her eyes and the wham... we don't really look into eachothers eyes after we hug...

I want to ask...

Your in your 30's and your "afraid" [nervous whatever you want to call it] to kiss someone so much to the point that you wrote a thread about it... so I'm just wondering, are you from another country or culture?

You just seem lost when it comes to intimacy...

I just think that if we knew more about your background we could better help you.

..just a thought

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I want to ask...

Your in your 30's and your "afraid" [nervous whatever you want to call it] to kiss someone so much to the point that you wrote a thread about it... so I'm just wondering, are you from another country or culture?

You just seem lost when it comes to intimacy...

I just think that if we knew more about your background we could better help you.

..just a thought

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I think being shy isn't a wrong thing, people have different experiences and walked different path than you. You are getting all judgmental when he could do the same for you.

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I think being shy isn't a wrong thing, people have different experiences and walked different path than you. You are getting all judgmental when he could do the same for you.

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Nope no judgement here.

If he came from say... a conservative Chinese culture or Arabic I don't think we could advise him to "jump on it"-- we'd have to consider where he comes from first. If he were abused as a child [just an example] which caused him to be this nervous then he could address to those issues.

I don't know about everyone else on this forum but, when I saw that he was 30 not 13 I was a little odded out. There is shy and then there is this...

My intention was not to offend, just an observation...

No I'm white and from NA, m 28 and she is 30

You need to kiss her. Don't tell her what you WANT to do, just do it. You will be surprised at her reaction, and wonder why you wasted so much time. I'm not talking about licking her throat, just a nice kiss to let her know that she is special to you. Then go from there.

If you're 28, you've got some catching up to do, but don't jump her like Ernest T. Bass.

What do you mean I have some catching up to do jmjoseph?

Talaniman Guide to kissing-
Nice guy way
"Can I kiss your buoooo-ti-ful lips???"

Good guy way,
Just lean in,
If she turns her head kiss her cheek
If she doesn't kiss her lips.
T man way
Steal a quick on, lock eyes, and get a really good one

This isn't rocket science.

I'll tell you why its so hard. Its so hard because it should have already have happened. Its hard because she has had her heart broken twice really hard. She is also 30 and this plays on any woman's mind. ITS HARD because she also decided she was going to be single and had given up on men. ITS HARD because she also believes that the next guy she is going to be the one that she is going to marry.

Its hard because she believes that I may be that person. Its hard because we both have so much love as an individual to give,

not mentioning we met randomly at a park where the two of us had realized that its going to be near impossible to find a partner who would get it how we see it, and all of a sudden have had 5 months go by where we have been with each other for a few hours at least everyday almost, and every weekend.

that's why its hard.

Its hard because you fear the obstacles, and have lost sight of the goals.

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Its hard because you fear the obstacles, and have lost sight of the goals.

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Personally, I think he's making a mountain out of a molehill..


...just sayin'

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I'll tell you why its so hard. Its so hard because it should have already have happened. Its hard because she has had her heart broken twice really hard. She is also 30 and this plays on any womans mind. ITS HARD because she also decided she was going to be single and had given up on men. ITS HARD because she also believes that the next guy she is going to be the one that she is going to marry.

Its hard because she believes that i may be that person. Its hard because we both have so much love as an individual to give,

not mentioning we met randomly at a park where the two of us had realized that its going to be near impossible to find a partner who would get it how we see it, and all of a sudden have had 5 months go by where we have been with each other for a few hours at least everyday almost, and every weekend.

thats why its hard.

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We are still talking about a kiss, right?