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  • Sep 22, 2010, 09:57 AM
    Cat1864
    Thank you for the update.

    I am glad things are going well for both of you. I hope things continue to improve. :)
  • Sep 22, 2010, 09:58 AM
    HRIVERA

    Also one of the hardest things I ever had to do,its eaiser to give up then try to put the pieces back together because I feel that no matter what if we don't fix ourselves we would create the same problems in any other relationships
  • Sep 22, 2010, 10:04 AM
    talaniman

    You have the key ingredient for a happy life, a willing partner.
  • Sep 22, 2010, 10:30 AM
    Homegirl 50

    I am happy to hear that.
    Good for the both of you!

    After 10 years, you're as good as married You may as well make it legal.
    This should have been done three kids ago.
  • Sep 22, 2010, 11:31 AM
    HRIVERA

    Could'nt get married at 15
  • Sep 22, 2010, 11:59 AM
    Homegirl 50

    So you guys are really young. Were you 15 or was she when you first started dating?
    No reason not to do it now. How old are you?
  • Sep 22, 2010, 12:47 PM
    HRIVERA

    Were 28 now we were 15 then when we had our first kid
  • Sep 22, 2010, 03:40 PM
    Homegirl 50

    You too need to stop playing house and get married. You're dealing with your problems good now, you may as well be doing it married.
    Commit to her and your family, stop straddling the fence while wanting her to hang on to one of your legs.
  • Sep 24, 2010, 12:42 PM
    HRIVERA

    The easiest thing to do is give up fight for what you want out of life go capture it and live life for each day that you are blessed with,don't go threw life unhappy we only have one chance at life make the best of it because living life to the fullest is a blessing in its self
  • Sep 24, 2010, 01:17 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by HRIVERA View Post
    the easiest thing to do is give up fight for what you want out of life go capture it and live life for each day that you are blessed with,dont go threw life unhappy we only have one chance at life make the best of it because living life to the fullest is a blessing in its self


    This sounds like somethng out of a very bad Chinese fortune cookie - or plagerized.
  • Jan 20, 2011, 04:29 PM
    HRIVERA

    Wells people a lot has happened since the last time I posted anything I'm glad to announce that the wedding is set for 5-19-2012 so for any one out there reading this and seeking for your own answers if your truly love someone you have to accept the bad and much as the good I'm not saying live with the type of life that got you to this point but rather point out what was wrong in the relationship come together as a team and work of them because together you can accomplish anything and live life just because your living doesn't mean your living life...
  • Jan 20, 2011, 04:32 PM
    Homegirl 50

    I wish you two the best
  • Jan 20, 2011, 07:54 PM
    Cat1864

    Thank you for updating us.

    I am so happy that things are going well. I hope this is a great year for all of you and just the beginning of a wonderful life together.
  • Jan 20, 2011, 08:55 PM
    Wondergirl

    Thanks for coming back to tell us about the upcoming wedding. We always like to see pictures of dogs, cats, babies, and weddings, and hear about the next chapter. Good wishes from me to all of you!

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