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Originally Posted by real soldier

ohhh man dam, this is bad case, trust me on this its the same with my girl, but in ur case it doesent sound like she is trying to control you, but its that she is out of control, so to control her start off by backin off and quitening down on her and she might ask wots up, then just tell her

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Hey dude. No she is a control freak. Even when I don't say anything she would look at me and say, "whats that look for" She was trying to control everything I did. My clothes, way I ate, what I said. A friend of hers told a friend of mine "she is a nice girl, but a bit of a control freak"...

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Originally Posted by markerman

It started with none, then slowly she started with little things, but you dont realize that it is controlling. Then it gets worse and worse until you realize whats going on. Some people never realize and get caught in the trap. These relationships will fail. Not healthy!! Thats what I realized..

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Yeah this is how my relationship started also. You don't realize until later what was going on. Thanks for your advice.