Now he is telling me that he needs this space to see if he loves me for me or if it is just a lust thing.

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Originally Posted by dancingtwins

Now he is telling me that he needs this space to see if he loves me for me or if it is just a lust thing.

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Now I'm telling you I stand by my original answer that he's toying with you.

Want to stop feeling like a yo-yo? Cut the string and stop talking to this guy period.

Yeah - chuck this guy - he's screwing with you. GIVE HIM SAPCE!! Eternity!! All the space he wants. Unlimited space!!

That was the lamest thing he could have said and I hope you can see that clear as day. He's shallow and immature and wanted it easy, when you let him know it would no longer be that way, he came up with a lousy excuse.

Stand by your integrity. Attention is great, not at that price though.

He called last night and said that he made a decision. He said that he didn't want me to die or anything but he didn't have any feelings for me. I said that is fine. It is your loss. I deserve better. Please don't call me anymore.

Good for you!!

You are so right. You do deserve better.

He was looking for a reaction and you gave him one he did not expect.

Good for you. Keep it up!!

By the way he was treating you, he didn't tell you anything that really surprised you and I think that it even helped you because you were already kind of expecting it. It was tough, but you said the right thing. Good for you. Now, remember, say what you mean and mean what you say.

You are free at last...

Good!! You have your answer - he was toying with you. Wanted a booty call.

Lots of great guys out there - take it SLOW. Weed out the creeps like this guy - so guys like this grow up!!