More 1 liners...

Please write everything on 1 post. Use puncuation.
And more people will help

Oh right I was in a relationship for two years then found out he was cheating became single for three years then met this one I with now I love and trust him but I scared my past will repeat itself

Weel when we first got together he was playing for football team and I didn't want him to stop playing so I let him continue and we would spend time after he finished but winter came and it got too cold and friends said I should make him spend time with me instead of going football

Well I think your friends are being unreasonable...
Let him play football and you can meet after football is over!

Yeah but before it would be difficult as my mum wouldn't let me out

We have spoken about having children together. And my family want to no when do we plan gewtting married and fed up them going on to me as we will sort that when we are ready

This is all too much too soon...

Relax and have fun together!
Children are a huge commitment and from what I gathered about your relationship and family I don't recommned this now - not all...

You are questioning love, and how to tell if he loves you and you are telling me you are ready for children..?

No but we have discussed how many we would like what we would like in the future we love each other I just scared my past will repeat itself is that odd or normal

ITS not how many children you want.
Have you discussed finances?
Money for schooling, clothing, etc...
Where would the child live as he still lives at home?

Being cheated surely can't be nice... but not all men are cheaters..
Trust and communication are vital - if those 2 are missing then its pointless..

Having kids won't suppress the feeling you having of things repeating themselves.. hope you understand my point here

Are you really 22??

No he twenty two April I twenty one November

But you live alone you said.. right? Why wouldn't your mum let you out??

Yes I do yes as he moving in with me gradually each time he comes he leaves piece of clothing behind

Yes I live alone now but when I lived home with mum she wouldn't let me out after nine in case something happened to me

So what's the problem? You live alone now

You are not getting my point. I'm sorry but I give up

And your point is?

Cause people still say I too leanient on him as some nights he doesn't come round

I think you abit too needy!
Space is good sometimes

Cause friends say I still too lienient cause some nights he doesn't come around