Hey guys, its been a while since I've updated you all.. but.. the relationship ended.. im sure it was because she wanted her ex boyfriend back.. but I'm fine, I'm fully over it, and I've moved on to another girl.

She may not be comfortable with having a boyfriend, or maybe she just needs some time to think. If you're her first long time boyfriend she may want to see what else is out there, I'm sure she really does love you though.

Sorry I didn't read what you wrote before me but its good that your over it I guess.

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Originally Posted by Wiggy22

Hey guys, its been a while since i've updated you all..but..the relationship ended..im sure it was becuase she wanted her ex boyfriend back..but im fine, im fully over it, and i've moved on to another girl.

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RED FLAG! You really ticked me off with that statement... after crying and professing love and now this!
Oh, boy, here we go again. You are so 'sure' it's because of the 'other guy'. Well, if you need an excuse, that's the one all of you guys always use.. You are not being fair to the poor other girl either - because you have not worked on yourself and will cling to her too. Rebound relationships are not honest and in my opinion disrespectful to the new girl.

Be honest with yourself, you were insecure and reflected this to her - she also has to do what her parents tell her to do and has probably just as much fear, confusion and frustration in her life as you do - and you added to it. The way you act, any girl with sense will drop you... you are too clingy.

Get a life, stop making another person the center of your universe and get to know yourself better. From what I can read, the only thing that makes you tick is when you are jumping on and clinging to another person - I repeat... this is NOT HEALTHY.

You freaked out after two days without her?? Again, no wonder it's over...

Now, read the first four stickies in the relationship's section and start working on some self-respect and grow up. Sorry to sound so harsh, but you really need a kick in the rear to wake up and start respecting yourself and others instead of jumping from one girl to the other.

Good luck.

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Haha, no, I'm sure it was her ex.. and I've got quite a life.. this new girl, I didn't mean I had jumped into a relationship with her, I waited until I felt like I was over the first girl.. it turned out it wasn't family issues after all.. it was just she wanted her ex back, and she got him.. anyway.. I didn't mean I started a relationship with this new girl, its just that I'm getting to know her better..