Originally Posted by Stringer
Remember something.......you can't pick out only certain portions of the past that you want to remember.
What he did, he did DJ. That part is now part of the "past" also. If I was a good guy all my life then (for whatever reason) did something very bad such as intentionally do something that would break your heart. Do you think you should just ignore it? Obviously it might depend on the severity of the "deed", but should I then expect that all would be forgiven and everything will now be as it was before? NO, it won't:) Every action by an adult is accountable, we leave footprints that in essence tell who we really are. Honestly hon like many others I have been through this, nothing is the same again, really; for so many reasons.
Briefly; in my first marriage; she left quite a few times, she would came back, she would left again......(I didn't want my two children to not have a two parent "family"). She would ask me, while crying her eyes out; "what's wrong with me? You are a good husband and father..please help me I REALLY LOVE YOU and find you attractive".....something different each time DJ. Finally I came to my senses....my kids and I do not need this! (I was indeed fortunate , my kids stayed with me.) Believe me I tried, she left 6 times; I let her come back 5 times. Should I have let her come back even 5 times....I was wrong, now I trying to make you see this.
You know you deserve better, you need to be strong. The right one WILL come along and he will appreciate what he has!:)
Stringer