Need a PEP talk.5 months NC and still hurt
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Hey everyone...
I don't know what's wrong with me. I guess I'm taking a little spill. I've partied, kept myself busy with work and school and found myself bursting into tears today. I've been fine...
I understand and realize we were not cut out for each other... I just feel like talking to him sometimes... I thought about calling him just to say hi, but I know Im not completely over him so I don't know if it will do me any good. I didn't call for is birthday, ignored his parents greeting emails. I feel like a mean heartless person.
The thing is that he was seeing this other girl while I was trying to fix what I had broken. That to me is heartless. He met her like two weeks after breaking up long term relationship almost marriage.
I think about how he's dealing with us not being together too... And I know that's not where my mind should be wondering but it happens.
On the nights when I do go out, that's when I THINK ABOUT HIM THE MOST!!!!!!
Than again how am I going to meet different people?
I'm a total mess right now. It hurt me to stay in the relationship and hurts me like hell to be living the breakup of it.
Why Contact An ex months later
Why contact your ex if no children are involved? Why not just take the breakup for what it is if both understand it is broken?