Originally Posted by
positiveparent
Kits spot on he wont change, Leopards never change their spots they merely re-arrange them.
He may promise you the earth, swear on a stack of bibles or islam equivalent and possibly really mean it at the time, but believe me, he will revert to type its ingrained in him, hes a control freak, a negative entity, and they always get worse with age.
Since being with him going on what youve told us in these posts, youve had a sneak peak into Domsetic Violence, a mild form maybe but domestic violence all the same, so just ask yourself, do you want him telling you who you can or cannot mix with, or for him to accuse you of screwing any male over 5 years old, to accuse you of making him act like he does, and its all your fault if it wasnt for your stupidity and not listening to him it wouldnt be happening.
Do you want him calling you a slut telling you youre a useless person and that if you report him to the police no one will believe you because everyone knows youre sick and a liar a slut whore tart, tramp, and if you have kids hell ridicule you in front of them, tell you youre a useless Mother, and wife, do exactly what he wants whilst you dread him walking through the door at night after hes had a skinful of beer, and forget about having headaches, hell just take what he wants when he wants it, Because youre his property, and he is entitled
Dont kid yourself it wont happen to you, because on what youve told us hes already well on the way, do you want to tell your family oh I walked into a door, for the umpteenth time. because he blacked your eyes.
Did you also know 90% of all murders are Domestic between man and wife usually, because they are.
I was lucky I managed to escape eventually after 7 years of being his piece of trash, who couldnt have any friends because they were all tramps. My family were low lifes I was scum, and more much more.
Oh but as soon as I managed to get away he became a snivvelling little wimp again, because thats what he really was, a big hard man who could only beat his 5ft 1inch 8stone wife up, but ran for the hills if he thought a Man may confront him. Yes he was hard to look at without laughing.
Oh and hell keep you barefoot and broke as the saying goes.
Stick with your ex and the above is what you can look forward to. So do you want to be treated well or without hope. You choose.
