It s has been a while since my last post, my apologies. I am at a point now where my relationship is good, but one thing is bothering me. This friend of hers. I was normal about everything until I saw that he would be very involved and was always truing to do something with her on the weekends. Needless to say what upset me was two things, one they went to have brunch just the two of them where he paid, at this point I told her I thought it was a little too much and that she shouldn't maybe lead him on if their was something. She responded by saying that he was just being nice, and that he knows that she is all alone since I am not here so he just wants to take care of her. Well we had this conversation because I wanted to tell her how I felt.
The other thing that happened was weirder, they went to the mall together and she was about to buy some clothese when he said let me pay , to which she ddint disagree. When she told me this on the phone I didn't react on it but just asked her why did you let him pay and she told me he just insisted a lot. I thought that was extremely weird and I am surprised she doesn't see this. Again she always tell me he is just being nice, but I feel "that nice" is trying to show maybe more interest.
Our relationship is good and we do love each and we always remind each other about out goals and all... but what should I think of this ?