Ask Me Help Desk - Did I do the right thing?

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

I have only seen you on here a short time and you already mentioned three people. I am not even in these threads much either!

Here, you can catch up using this link:
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Quite a variety.

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Sadly this isnt harsh enough. Stop playing the field like you are first. How can you focus on things with so many partners or whatever you call them. I have only seen you on here a short time and you already mentioned three people. I am not even in these threads much either!

I don't like being alone. When I end it with one person, another usually jumps in...

Don't make the same mistake I did Emop.

I didn't take school seriously and after year 12 I got a low paying job in retail.
I planned on going back to school after a year of working but it just didn't happen.

I regret not studying hard enough, not doing all my homework and not getting the best grades I could have just because I didn't care at the time.
This might not be the case with you (not caring) but you just need to push hard and do your best, or else you will end up like me... 24 years old, no job and in debt, wishing her life were different.

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

Don't make the same mistake I did Emop.

I didn't take school seriously and after year 12 I got a low paying job in retail.
I planned on going back to school after a year of working but it just didn't happen.

I regret not studying hard enough, not doing all my homework and not getting the best grades I could have just because I didn't care at the time.
This might not be the case with you (not caring) but you just need to push hard and do your best, or else you will end up like me... 24 years old, no job and in debt, wishing her life were different.

I know shaz, so many people tell me the same thing

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

Here, you can catch up using this link:
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Quite a variety.

Wow

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Originally Posted by NeedKarma

Here, you can catch up using this link:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...&starteronly=1
Quite a variety.

What is your point?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

what is your point?

Did I do something wrong?

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I know shaz, so many people tell me the same thing

Its true and you need to listen. Sadly school is important and it is serious. Don't worry about being alone. That should be the least of your concerns right now. You have your entire life to find someone special. Would you rather keep jumping around to people so your not alone and get a reputation? Then when your mature and ready to find that someone no one will take you serious. The only guys/girls left who will want you will know your for your reputation.

Leave Pat if he isn't what you wanted. Take time for yourself. Get to know Emop.

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Its true and you need to listen. Sadly school is important and it is serious. Dont worry about being alone. That should be the least of your concerns right now. You have your entire life to find someone special. Would you rather keep jumping around to people so your not alone and get a reputation? Then when your mature and ready to find that someone no one will take you serious. The only guys/girls left who will want you will know your for your reputation.

Leave Pat if he isnt what you wanted. Take time for yourself. Get to know Emop.

True, I don't want a reputation...

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

True, I don't want a reputation...

Then put a stop to it now. You can do it. Someone is always here to talk if you don't want to be alone. Turn to us.

But most important you need to get the truth out to him first.

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Originally Posted by 88sunflower

Then put a stop to it now. You can do it. Someone is always here to talk if you dont want to be alone. Turn to us.

But most important you need to get the truth out to him first.

I can't talk to him at all until tomorrow at school. But I will put an end to this.

Good luck and take care.

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Originally Posted by amicon

Good luck and take care.

Thank you

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Thank you

You did the right thing emop. I'm proud of you! You are going to be a fine adult. Bless You!:)

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

You did the right thing emop. I'm proud of you! You are going to be a fine adult. Bless You!:)

You noticed how smart she is and what a good writer she is, didn't you? The world is going to be okay as long as emop is in it.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You noticed how smart she is and what a good writer she is, didn't you? The world is going to be okay as long as emop is in it.

Don't be so sure of that WG.

I did something unforgivable

Read your own signature, and get over yourself.

Self pity doesn't play well at all.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I did something unforgivable

We've worked through that. I thought you forgave yourself. Apparently not. The only one who hasn't forgiven yourself is you.

You want to wallow in self-pity the rest of your life?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

We've worked through that. I thought you forgave yourself. Apparently not. The only one who hasn't forgiven yourself is you.

You want to wallow in self-pity the rest of your life?

I did something else WG, I cheated on my boyfriend

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I did something else WG, I cheated on my boyfriend

And you'll do it again?

Emop

Okay this may be harsh also but sometimes you got to be cruel to be kind as they say.

You know it's pretty obvious to most of us that your whole lifestyle is unstable , that is that you flitter between relationships like their hot meals , once ones finished you start looking for another one. That's not healthy and considering your past its going to stay a never ending cycle unless YOU really want to do something about it.

End it with this Pat fellow as all he's after is Sex , so is Werewolf boy :rolleyes: and any other person you seem to get close to.

Then from now on DO NOT go out with anybody who isn't willing to be with you without the Sex , that way yo may actually find someone who likes you for just YOU and not your Hoo Hoo.

Do you really want the reputation of being easy , because that's what's happening and only you can fix it by either being single and happy for a while , or if you are going to have a partner choose one that doesn't need anything more than friendship at the beginning.

BTW... there is no such thing as a werewolf unless you go to the movies , so listen to what everyone else has told you about that not only here but over on the other threads.

Me and Pat don't have sex, we kiss. I think I said that earlier in the post...

You all are right though... I'm changing relationships as often as I change my socks, exaggeration but still.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

And you'll do it again?

O GODS NO!
Of course not

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

O GODS NO!
Of course not

Then forgive yourself and move forward.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Then forgive yourself and move forward.

Okay WG

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Okay WG

Emop what are we going to do with you? Sweetie don't confuse sex with love! Someday when you meet the right person, and he is a wonderful guy are you going to tell him about these episodes. You are too good for this. You are worth something. You're talented and we all want the best for you. Stop this! :confused:

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

emop what are we going to do with you? Sweetie don't confuse sex with love! Someday when you meet the right person, and he is a wonderful guy are you going to tell him about these episodes. You are too good for this. You are worth something. You're talented and we all want the best for you. Stop this! :confused:

I agree, they're easy to confuse, most of us have confused them at one point or another. Sex is a special thing, unfortunately society doesn't value the meaning of it as highly anymore.

So... Emop... How are things going?

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Originally Posted by Aurora_Bell

So... Emop.... How are things going?

EMOP.. come back and talk to us. We are trying to guide you in the right direction. Don't make me worry about you anymore than I do. Keep posting and stop what you are doing. Every time you start doing really well, you seem to shoot yourself in the foot. Let us know how you are!

Okay I guess... Going back to the doc soon... counselor thinks I may have schizophrenia

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Okay I guess... Going back to the doc soon... counselor thinks I may have schizophrenia

Good, I'm glad you're okay! Are you going to do what the doctor says?

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Good, I'm glad you're okay! Are you going to do what the doctor says?

Yes, I can't stand being whatever I am right now. According to my friends, when under too much stress, I am literally a different person

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

yes, I can't stand being whatever I am right now. According to my friends, when under too much stress, I am literally a different person

You are you. But go see wwhat the Doc says. Okay?

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

You are you. But go see wwhat the Doc says. Okay?

The doctor is going to say, "meds meds meds" then mum'll say "no no no"

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

The doctor is going to say, "meds meds meds" then mum'll say "no no no"

Why would she do that!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Why would she do that!

I've been on depression meds for over a year. Then about a month and a half ago, the doctor dropped my meds because my mum said so

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I've been on depression meds for over a year. then about a month and a half ago, the doctor dropped my meds because my mum said so

It should be up to the doctor! Isn't seventeen a legal age to make decisions for yourself!:)

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

It should be up to the doctor! Isn't seventeen a legal age to make decisions for yourself!:)

I thought that was 18

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

i thought that was 18

Ask one of the attorneys here!

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Ask one of the attorneys here!

I will

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I will

Behave yourself. You have people here who care about you! You need to start caring about yourself.:(