Originally Posted by
Altenweg
I'm going to take a stab at explaining what WG said. If I'm wrong, sorry WG. :)
What would happen if you respond? Would it make a difference? You've already said it's over, you're done, not going back, you're over it. So why does it matter?
Here's my interpretation of why she's texting.
She broke up with you. She left you. She's female. We female's tend to be nurturing caring beings. We don't like to hurt someone. It's much easier to walk away if we're the ones that are hurt. So, by texting you and claiming that you're spreading rumors that she cheated, she can put the blame on you, make you the bad guy. Then she can feel like she had a good reason to leave.
It doesn't make sense, because really, the only reason she needed to leave you was the one she gave, that she's not in love with you, but I'm sure she feels guilty that that's the only reason she had to leave. Making you the bad guy makes her feel better for leaving.
Forget about the texts and move on, or obsess about what they mean, drive yourself crazy about it, and put your life on hold even more because you can't let it go. Personally, I like option A.
As for your ego, if you need her in order to boost your ego, than you need more help than we can provide. You are the one that either makes your life great, or bad. It's in your hands. You ego should be boosted because of who you are, not because other people are failing in your eyes.