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  • Jan 12, 2009, 05:58 AM
    LOUNTASH

    No I no I like my space whole flat to me self get to do what I like
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:03 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Smear test
    I got me first smear test a week Wednesday don't no what to expect
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:11 AM
    kctiger

    Time with you... to me, that is all that ever mattered. If I got time with my girlfriend that night (now ex), then I was a happy man. All the overglorified Valentine's Day stuff is for other people, just give me good quality time with a girl I love, and I am a happy dude!
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:15 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Thanks but it difficult as he may have to look after his younger bro and sis while his mum and her partner goes out. I would go round but not met them and don't think valentine night would be right night to meet the,m
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:17 AM
    Krs
    If they are out, how will you meet them? And even if so, so what if its valentine night? Its just a normal night really.. its no big deal...
    And your not going there with intention to meet them but to surprise your boyfriend
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:18 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Sticky situation
    I been seeing a lad for over a year I got me own place but he still lives with his mum and I want him to move in with me but he pays for most the bills at his mums what do I do
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:19 AM
    Krs
    This is not a relationship question.. should be done under women's health
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:20 AM
    LOUNTASH

    I no but they will come back while I still there so me boyfriend could walk me home
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:20 AM
    Krs
    Wouldn't it been easier if you put all your 1 liner questions under one thread with useful information? Instead of 10 questions with one sentence only!
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:20 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Sorry
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:22 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Smear test
    I got first smear test and don't no what to expect
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:23 AM
    Krs
    What a Feeling - Smear Test
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:23 AM
    Krs
    Pap test - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:25 AM
    Krs
    What's the problem? I don't see it as a big deal at all
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:38 AM
    Curlyben
    >EIGHT Threads Merged<

    Please stick to ONE thread for this ongoing issue rather than SPAMMING the site with multiple threads.
    Also it would be extremely helpful and good mannered if you read what has been suggested and make intelligent, thought out response, rather than simplistic one liners that are unhelpful.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 06:42 AM
    HistorianChick

    Trust is the basis for a successful relationship.

    You don't trust him.

    He doesn't trust you (or he would bring you to the parents).

    Therefore, this isn't a healthy relationship.

    I think you need to spend time single and figure out who YOU are... not if the fortune teller is right.
  • Jan 12, 2009, 07:33 AM
    talaniman

    Your whole life is built on him, and that's not healthy. Your afraid to communicate even your basic feelings, and have to many issues that must be resolved.

    If this thread is any indication, your lonely, but him moving in with you is not your answer. Finding your own voice, and expressing yourself is.

    All those chat speak one liners are not helping any one either and maybe you think we can read minds, but we cannot, nor can we predict the future.

    Come on, without more descriptive sharing on your part, such as some background history, no reasonable advice can be given.
  • Jan 13, 2009, 08:00 AM
    LOUNTASH
    Worrier
    Thanks for the advice I had yesterday I spoke to him this morning and he told me I was being stupid. That I worry too much if I don't stop worrying do you think it could split us up even though we love each other to pieces.
  • Jan 13, 2009, 08:20 AM
    talaniman
    Yes it can, especially when there are no facts to support all of that worrying. If it causes you to act on impulsive feelings, it will undermine your relationship, and your life as well.
  • Jan 13, 2009, 08:28 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Should u believe people or instinct feelings
  • Jan 13, 2009, 08:41 AM
    talaniman

    To make decisions for yourself, you need facts, even the ones you don't like.

    Instincts are the part of your common sense, that's telling you to pay close attention, and I trust mine, as they are based in the facts, not just feelings.

    Just feelings can cause trouble when they conflict with the reality of facts. Sometimes our feelings allow our mind to play tricks on us. Then we see things that are not real.

    Do you have some facts to go along with your instincts, and feelings? If not, get them. Then make a decision for yourself.
  • Jan 13, 2009, 08:44 AM
    LOUNTASH

    Yes as I no he wouldn't cheat instincts tell me that too but friends say he will
  • Jan 21, 2009, 03:39 AM
    khadarehs
    Tell him that, I got new boy friend... he is more handsome than you... see the response.. if he this agree... then think about him... otherwise... leave him... alll the best
  • Jan 21, 2009, 03:50 AM
    LOUNTASH

    I can't cause he kepps saying that I deserve better than him but I don't as he treats me like a princess
  • Jan 21, 2009, 03:55 AM
    khadarehs

    I think you are in deeep love with him... first come out from that... and touch the reality... then act... do think otherwise... he may be cheating u
  • Jan 21, 2009, 04:00 AM
    LOUNTASH

    No he wouldn't do that to me he said that cause I alwaysing getting him out of trouble

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