Ex Just Broke Up With me and is now getting married?
Me and my ex dated for almost 6 years and she broke up with me 5 months ago. If you need more insight take a look at my previous posts. Recently, My life has been turned upside down with the news I have just received. She has started dating someone new since October and seems to be happy with this new guy. I sent her a text message wishing her a happy new year and didn't get a reply until 2 days later where she wrote asking me if we could get together and talk sometime. I didn't reply because I didn't want to seem desperate to talk to her and still haven't yet. Just last Friday I went on Facebook and to my heartbroken surprise she changed her profile from in a relationship to ENGAGED! After 4 months of dating she is now engaged? When I read this I broke down and felt my heart break into a million pieces. Her boyfriend is 7 years older than her and doesn't even live close to the same city. Many of out mutual friends all called me and told me how shocked they were to hear this and think this is just horrible. I haven't talked to her since but just last night when I was on the phone with a friend of mine I got a call on my voicemail. It was her and saying that she has been trying to get a hold of me and was wondering if we could talk when I get this message. She sounded really nervous on the message but I just deleted it cause I don't know what point of talking to her would do for me.
Just before we broke up she would tell me about how she has commitment issues and how she is afraid of taking the next step in our relationship. If she felt like that so strongly after 6 years together, how could 4 months with a new guy be any different. How can she change that easily? I know speaking with her will just bring me down more and I am very pissed off at this whole situation but also very heartbroken. Am I doing the right thing in not returning her phone call or text messages? Or should I confront her? Or what should I do?