Ask Me Help Desk - Nice guys finish last

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Originally Posted by kristynn

In this case, is there anything the girl you stare at can do to make you feel less shy, not look away, and most of all not spend the next 5 minutes beating yourself up (I guess this happens each time you stare at her, look away, etc., right?)?

Better yet, is there anything she can do to help you out and so that you can go and actually say something to her, instead of JUST staring? :rolleyes:

Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

You see the reason I turn away is because I don't want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.

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Originally Posted by woh337

but r u sure u won't stare at ugly chicks???:confused:

Just wondering... Why are you so persistent on this question concerning "ugly chicks"? :eek: Is there a reason?

By the way ladeez, while we are gathered here alone, lol, what do you think of my pic :)

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

you see the reason i turn away is because i dont want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.

OK, but...

What if she's shy too?

What if she just doesn't dare to smile at you?

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

Smile, all she would have to do is smile.

you see the reason i turn away is because i dont want to appear a weirdo, thus by smiling the girl would give out the simple sign that she likes what she sees.

Thank you for telling us that! But what if I am a friendly person and I smile all the time? To everyone:confused:... It's important to be nice!:) do u think he will still get it that I am intersted in him?:confused:

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Originally Posted by woh337

Thank you for telling us that! But what if I am a friendly person and I smile all the time?! to everyone:confused: ...It's important to be nice!:) do u think he will still get it that I am intersted in him?:confused:

Do you smile at strangers? All the time?

OK OK

First off if she is shy too then that's a problem. I honestly think sometimes you got to have the guts to go up and say "hows it goin"

Oh and if you smile and look at the guy then yes I'm sure he will get it, either that or he can't read signs too well

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Do you smile at strangers? All the time?

no... I mean... at school, I pretty much know everyone, so I smile to everyone kind of. It's not a big school, and people are all very friendly anyway.:)

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

btw ladeez, while we are gathered here alone, lol, what do you think of my pic :)

Is that you? :D

Duhh

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Originally Posted by woh337

no...I mean ...at school, I pretty much know everyone, so I smile to everyone kinda of. It's not a big school, and ppl are all very friendly anyway.:)

Ah okay. :) Got it.

So there is a guy in your school who's always staring at you, not smiling, only staring; you might be interested in him and you wonder why is he staring, hoping he might be crazy about you. :p Right?

Why yes it is lol

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Ah okay. :) Got it.

So there is a guy in your school who's always staring at you, not smiling, only staring; you might be interested in him and you wonder why is he staring, hoping he might be crazy about you. :p Right?

Well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused... :confused:

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Originally Posted by woh337

well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused...:confused:

Ahh that must mean you are fine looking in which case I demand you fly over here and go out with me

:)

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Originally Posted by woh337

well actually, :rolleyes: there are plenty of guys do this to me. A LOT OF THEM, so I am confused...:confused:

But you're not interested in all of them, are you? :p

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

ahh that must mean you are fine lookin in which case i demand you fly over here and go out with me

:)

But how about Huno and GEOFF... PLANE? :confused: Are you british? Hum... :rolleyes: I think I love that...
P.S. I think you look handsome, and seems like a guy that would like to be bullied by me... :D

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Originally Posted by kristynn

But you're not interested in all of them, are you? :p

No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D

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Originally Posted by woh337

but how about Huno and GEOFF...PLANE??:confused: Are you british??Hum...:rolleyes: I think I love that...
P.S. I think you look handsome, and seems like a guy that would like to be bullied by me...:D

Nope I'm irish and yea ill be bullied by you lol I'm pretty easy going

And thanks

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Originally Posted by woh337

No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D

Then why make such a fuss out of it? :p As I said, they think you're nice to look at so they look at you. They can't help it.

Just go and talk to them.

Show them that you're confident and not mortally afraid to go talk to them, the way they seem to be. All right? :p

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

nope im irish and yea ill be bullied by ya lol im pretty easy goin

and thanks

Where are you at then? :rolleyes: in England?

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Originally Posted by woh337

No, actually not! I only like Huno and GER>>PLANE;) :D

You forgot zooropa :D

Indeed she did

I'm in belfast at mo, where be you at and what age will you be? I'm 21 by the way :)

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Originally Posted by kristynn

You forgot zooropa :D

Do you have to say that? :mad: are you a friend of mine! :confused: Did u hear that he is irish? I don't like guys who drinks too much!:D And again, don't tell him about it, he problly still thinks I like him:D

Are you guys setting up a blind date? :D

Beware zooropa, she's half Latina! :D

Lol drinks too much, cheeky cheeky!!

Not all of us are drunks, only 99% lol

Besides aren't all the girls in the world meant to love our accents ;)

Krissie you can have me if she won't ;)

Lol

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

indeed she did

im in belfast at mo, where be you at and wat age will you be? im 21 by the way :)

21 as well;) , where is Belfast anyway? :rolleyes:

To Kristynn: are you racist? :mad:

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Are you guys setting up a blind date? :D

Beware zooropa, she's half Latina! :D

That's cool, I like to explore new cultures :)

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

besides arent all the girls in the world meant to love our accents ;)

Yup, it's exactly what I was going to say. You must have that awesome Irish accent!

By the way, I hate being a 2nd choice. Count me OFF!

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Originally Posted by woh337

21 as well;) , where is Belfast anyway??:rolleyes:

To Kristynn: are you racist??:mad:

Belfast is in a little irish country called Ireland

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Originally Posted by woh337

To Kristynn: are you racist??:mad:

Are you serious?? I was just kidding, hun :) . I am NOT a racist at all. Sorry about that though :o

I looove Latin people as much as I looove Spanish. :p I really do!

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Are you serious??? I was just kidding, hun :) . I am NOT a racist at all.

I looove Latin people as much as I looove Spanish. :p I really do!

Thank you,that's all I want to hear.:cool: In exchange, u can have this irish guy, but u need to make sure that u don't still huno from me okay?:o :D

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Originally Posted by woh337

Thank you,that's all I want to hear.:cool: In exchange, u can have this irish guy, but u need to make sure that u don't still huno from me okay?:o :D

You're 21? I thought you were younger. :p

See, she prefers huno cause huno's Latino! I can't keep your secrets anymore. :)

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Originally Posted by woh337

Thank you,that's all I want to hear.:cool: In exchange, u can have this irish guy, but u need to make sure that u don't still huno from me okay?:o :D

Who is this Huno guy, a rival to my new loves affections, I shall challenge him to a drinking contest!!

Lol

Krissis is that pic you, been meaning to ask that for ages

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Originally Posted by kristynn

You're 21? I thought you were younger. :p

Because you are an old woman! :p seriously I am 21

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

krissis is that pic you, been meaning to ask that for ages

Always the same question, but the answer is NO. Sorry to disappoint you.

Why krissis? :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by woh337

coz u r an old woman!!:p seriously I am 21

I'm a little bit younger. :p

[email protected] - that's all I'm saying lol

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Originally Posted by kristynn

I'm a little bit younger. :p

What age are you

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Originally Posted by zooropa1985

wat age are you

Mickey the Irish guy,

I am 20.

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Mickey the Irish guy,

I am 20.

Hehehe, I knew I am more mature then you are! little sis:D

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Originally Posted by kristynn

Mickey the Irish guy,

I am 20.

Ahh I wish I was called mickey but sadly I'm called Will.

20 hmm that's a good age