Maybe he is allergic to onions??Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
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Maybe he is allergic to onions??Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
Oh, so she wants to kill him? I don't think so.Quote:
Maybe he is allergic to onions??Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
My ex cheated on me. We had 2 sons. When I found out about it I didn't wait 24 hours before I was out of the door and gone. It's been 24 years now and I have never looked back. Never questioned my decision, and am better now than I ever would have been had I stayed with him.
Your man cheated on you, and is still cheating on you, yet you slept in the same bed last night and are using his "supposed" illness as an excuse. Girl, you need to get a backbone!
No, he has a flu, and some people say onions help fight the flu.Quote:
Originally Posted by N0help4u
He is not allergic, he jut doesn't like them in certain food. And since we don't have soup that often I forgot he doesn't like them in soup.
Excuses, excuses. He's playing you and your falling for it.
I'm done. I can't help you if you don't want help.
I need to log off now no matter what. I am leaving him tonight. I have made up my mind. I don't like him anymore. I don't like what he doing to me, and how he answers me. He is unpolite, broke, cinical and a coward. He breaks his promisses and no matter if he cheats on me now or not, it is not even important. There are enough of other reasons to go. I can't stand his attitude and have had plenty of time to think about it so this is nothing I do in the heat of the moment. I am not sure if I even love him any more, at least I do not respect him a bit, and don't admire him at all. I don't want my future here trapped in troubles and I don't like his face.Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
Thanks for every comment and advice.
Id leave before the soups done. As I always say no forwarding address.
Done! I went to the room and asked him for 2 minutes of his time.Told him I can't be with him any longer. Told him I am tired of being excluded and treated as if I am a stranger in his house. That I had made up my mind after thinking it through. I said OK. And then he said OK. I went to a friend's house. My next step is to be strong and not look back.
I hope you are strong enough to hold out.
Ok in my book shows he was just waiting for you to get tired of everything and leave, Very likely he was treating you the way he has because he wanted you to leave rather than have to tell you to go.
Yes, been thinking the same. I also said to him that -I am sure you know why I am tired of this.
The only confusing thing is why after the fight we had a day or 2 ago that he couldn't imagine his life without me, that I am the prettiest woman in the world and that we love each other and that he will "die" without me.
He treats me as if he wants me to leave, but then in between he overwhelms me with his love for me in words. Many words and little action. He has really treated me like air, totally ignored me and still he tells me I am acting like a child for fighting for his attenting when I got 0 attention, having the ex he cheated on me with him, and telling me even that I am stupid and that people say I am stupid and that he wanted to punch me in the face for being annoying. What on the planet does he think I am? Yes, he has a child and yes he has to come first, but that does not mean he can have me as a pet in the house. I even think a pet gets more love and affection than I have seen the son got back in his life. During this time we only had sex one time and that was the make up sex after a nasty fight. He became a big jerk after the son got back into the life. Not the fault of the son. Only he who suddenly changed and became totally indifferent when it came to be. I even think my new neighbour cares more about me than my own boyfriend who I was going to marry.
I think he is messing with the ex again. He sounds like a jerk at any rate and I hope you have left for good. No one can treat you this poorly without your allowing it.
Stay strong and stay away from him.
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