Okies. As you advised, I stopped contacting the guy now... Feels better to get over it. But I feel very bad I'm sacrificing my frindship with the guy I loved earlier. I hope I get over it completely soon.

Im trying to give up my interest in men though.. as being an Indian its very hard to be in a relationship with men here. It's a taboo. I'll get settled With a girl and have a family.

Hope things work out. I know it'll work out Well. I am very loving and will do anything to keep someone happy. I hope I keep my family happy and love them unconditionally.

Thanks & Rgds,
Im in love26

"Im trying to give up my interest in men though.. as being an Indian its very hard to be in a relationship with men here. Its a taboo. I'll get settled With a girl and have a family."

Denying who you are is just another in a long line of bad mistakes. If you want to achieve happiness, this is not the way to do it.

Im trying to give up my interest in men though.. as being an Indian its very hard to be in a relationship with men here. Its a taboo. I'll get settled With a girl and have a family.


So you would ruin a woman's life because you don't want to face who you are. Get some counseling. Some maturity and counseling will do you a world of good, You need to face who you are.

Lord Help me.

Well then. I don't think anyone can help me. Its probably me. Anyway even if I accept who I am I will not be able to have a relation with a guy openly as I'm an indian and such relations are a taboo in india. My parents will either show me the way out of the house or ill end up in misery.

I bet I will have to live alone without love then.

And regards to couselling, it'll only help me with my past pains not the future.


Rgds
Im in love.26

Counseling will also help you face your future and deal with it. A counselor may also help you connect with gay groups.

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Well then. I dont think anyone can help me. Its probably me. Anyways even if i accept who i am i will not be able to have a relation with a guy openly as im an indian and such relations are a taboo in india. My parents will either show me the way out of the house or ill end up in misery.

I bet i will have to live alone without love then.

And regards to couselling, itll only help me with my past pains not the future.


Rgds
Im in love.26

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There are 1.241 billion people (as of 2011) in India so I am going to take a guess in the dark that you are not the only one struggling with this issue. Potentially a counselor could help you with your issues and your future. Also being gay and not wanting to be gay is not the only issue you are dealing with. You need to learn to like yourself before you allow others in to like you. There is a lot to work on in your life. You shouldn't cheat yourself out of a very happy life.

I have just overcome the obsession of both the guys.. Im fine now.. No more I'm going to attempt to get into relation till I'm mentally fine. Lets see what life got in store for me.

As of now I'm very happy. Rgds,

Good!

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Thanks to you guys.. im all right now. And doing good in my work too..

Kip in touch. :)

Rgds,
No more in love ;P

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Hello Homegirl. How are you. Long time. Im fine out here. Living life happily and single and not ready to mingle yet. :)

Feels good though!

Glad you're doing okay.
Thanks for the update