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Its all very confusing :/

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Of course it is, and that's why a guy has to have his head on straight to deal with a female. You will learn, then you won't be stuck on her confusion.

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Originally Posted by Adam carter

I've being doing no contact. Its when I'm out she always comes up to me I never go up to her. Its hard to tell if she likes me or not but I'm not texting her or anything

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I told her it wasn't the place or time to talk about unresolved feelings last night and if she wanted to meet up call me tomorrow and we can go for quick lunch and she said she would let me know when she will ring me but hasn't yet.. She said she is too busy today and I feel that's an excuse tbh.

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Telling her to call you so you can do lunch, is not doing no contact. No contact is not contacting her, and not allowing her to contact you. The next time she approaches you, walk away. That's no contact.

I agree with Odinn - Adam doesn't want to hear advice and is going to do whatever he is going to do, no matter how unhappy it makes him. He and Garboozle are best left to work this out between them.

I wrote a defense here yesterday of garboozle's right to voice opinion about relationships, no matter how different from others, and that he shouldn't be banned from this category by mods, and it was REMOVED? He doesn't advocate violence or anything dangerous.
It's dangerous when mods decide that they can delete plain old opinion.

Maybe starting a new thread in an appropriate place is a better tactic than hijacking someone's else's question.

Just saying.

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Originally Posted by joypulv

I wrote a defense here yesterday of garboozle's right to voice opinion about relationships, no matter how different from others, and that he shouldn't be banned from this category by mods, and it was REMOVED? He doesn't advocate violence or anything dangerous.
It's dangerous when mods decide that they can delete plain old opinion.

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It's also dangerous when a person with an obvious dysfunctional view on relationships, gives advice to someone that is also suffering from dysfunction in that area. But that's just my opinion.

Garboozle has about as much to offer in the relationship forum as I do in the political forum. We each have forums we should steer clear of, only because we aren't suited for those forums. For garboozle it's relationships. Again, just my opinion.

But that hasn't stopped him from posting, no matter what's been send against, or in defense of him posting on this forum, so I don't understand what the issue is.

I also agree with Odinn. I don't think Adam wants advice. If he does, he doesn't seem to be able to follow that advice. He's going to do what he wants to do. He's bound and determined to learn this lesson the hard way.

Maybe that's what needs to happen.

So Adam, my advice is, do what you want to do. When it ends the way we predicted, and you're finally ready to accept that, come back and we can work on the next step.