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Originally Posted by smoothy

The problem with distance relationships is you both dream things up about each other that aren't true because you aren't there to know differently...its something you can't avoid doing.

Then when you finally ARE together you find they aren't what you expected them to be. Both people do this.

There really is no substitute for actually being there early into a relationship.

Some things just aren't meant to be....just because you CAN do something doesn't mean its wise to actually do it.

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So you are saying I should just let him go?

He's lying about not masturbating... either that or he's just plain got issues.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

He's lieing about not masturbating....either that or he's just plain got issues.

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What do you mean?
Lol what type of issues?:s

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Originally Posted by Nab28

what do you mean?
Lol what type of issues?:s

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He's masturbating or he has mental issues...

Unless he's a Bhudist Monk... he's masturbating if he isn't having sex with someone...

And it he isn't then he has mental or behavioural issues.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

He's masturbating or he has mental issues....

Unless he's a Bhudist Monk....he's masturbating if he isn't having sex with someone...

And it he isn't then he has mental or behavioural issues.

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LMFAO.. I will have to believe a dude I guess he's lying then.

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Originally Posted by Nab28

so you are saying i should just let him go?.

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Yes.. that IS what I am saying.

We haven't said a word to one another for the past two days. I want to accuse myself here saying it is my fault. I posted on his Facebook wall he didn't bother replying me. And I don't know what to do. If to keep not saying anything with the hope he will come talking to me! Or speak to him.

Let him go. It's never going to amount to anything but pain anyway. You are better off finding someone that you can actually be with.

Exactly... you are going to waste years of your life on this loser that you will never get back, take that time to look for someone closer to you geographically... there are 3.5 billion guys more or less on this planet... and there aren't too many places where there are no guys... everyplace has its share or losers... but keep looking there are good people out there that you can actually see in person s often as you both want.

Its easy to pretend you are not the kind of person you really are online... its not as easy with you can look them in the eye when you talk with each other.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Exactly....you are going to waste years of your life on this loser that you will never get back, take that time to look for someone closer to you geographically...there are 3.5 billion guys more or less on this planet...and there aren't too many places where there are no guys...everyplace has its share or losers...but keep looking there are good people out there that you can actually see in person s often as you both want.

Its easy to pretend you are not the kind of person you really are online....its not as easy with you can look them in the eye when you talk with each other.

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What if he does come back talking to me, what do I do? Cause I believe it ain't worth it. I have been told a lot of times p.s We Skyped a lot of Times. We figt a lot. I mean it feels real and unreal at the same time.:(

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Let him go. It's never going to amount to anything but pain anyway. You are better off finding someone that you can actually be with.

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Less pain if we ain't talking?😱

Less pain if you stop ALL contact... its easier to get someone out of your mind if they aren't constantly on you mind by talking with them.

Think of it like pulling off a bandage... its better to rip it off fas and the discomfort is over faster.t.. than do it slow and feel every hair come out by the roots one by one...

Wow, this online long distance relationship is so unhealthy at many levels and has little to do with reality. Its totally make believe as only cyber love can be.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Wow, this online long distance relationship is so unhealthy at many levels and has little to do with reality. Its totally make believe as only cyber love can be.

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You got that right... she needs to count her blessings she didn't move a long way spending all of her money to do so, only to find out he's NOTHING like he pretended to be... its going to be EASY for her to get out of this one.