Time to put the cards on the table and get to the bottom of this and make a decision based on facts. Beliefs got nothing to do with it.

For the love of God - he's cheating on you, he's lying about it, you're looking for proof, you're finding proof. You aren't happy in the relationship, he's not happy in the relationship. The only commitment you have together is the lease on an apartment.

Break up already and move on, unless you enjoy the drama. Some people crave personal problems - I don't understand it, but a lot of people just love churning through the same issues over and over and over again, living in chaos. If that's your choice, go for it. If you want a respectful, loving, trusting relationship, this will never be it.

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Originally Posted by dontknownuthin

For the love of God - he's cheating on you, he's lying about it, you're looking for proof, you're finding proof. You aren't happy in the relationship, he's not happy in the relationship. The only commitment you have together is the lease on an apartment.

Break up already and move on, unless you enjoy the drama. Some people crave personal problems - I don't understand it, but a lot of people just love churning through the same issues over and over and over again, living in chaos. If that's your choice, go for it. If you want a respectful, loving, trusting relationship, this will never be it.

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I don't like drama, I want as less drama as possible in my life!

I think I'll just rent something short term until July and go sometimes at the apartment until I find my own place and arrange things...