Hi everyone!. its been one month now that I'm with my boyfriend. Im gay and my boyfriend and I had sex 3 weeks back and as its me the passive guy, I allowed him to have anal on me but it really hurt!. when he inserted his penis, I felt a great pain and I asked him to stop but he suggested me to continue and I did so but after some 15 min, the pain was a minimum and it didn't really disturb me.. after 3 days, we had sex again and it didn't really pain but only a little that I can bear... After that day, we didn't get to meet again but its after 2 weeks only that we had sex... when I had sex again and when he inserted his penis, I felt a great pain... and I told him to stop!. and he did so!. I don't want this to disturb our relationship!. is it normal to feel pain?. is there a way to avoid it?. help me please!.

I agree with the above.

Don't be discouraged if you experience some discomfort. It is very common. The best thing to do is to try and relax prior to sex. Perhaps a lot of carressing and kissing would help. Also use lubrication. If done correctly, it can be very pleasurable. I, myself, can reach orgasm through anal. Again though, try to relax.