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  • Mar 31, 2010, 11:37 PM
    amicon

    Get busy living your own life and start doing things you enjoy with friends and family.

    Being active and having things to do will help you get over this.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 10:38 AM
    rrakesh85
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Violaename View Post
    Its a tough time to go through...
    Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But...but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
    If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,its a text...not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
    I hope it works for you.
    Good luck.



    Hai I have sent a sorry mail but she didn't reply me back.
    So I have called her to tell sorry but she shouted at me and said that never ever call me.
    Also she said that don't even come to see me after dead. I really feel like dead after hearing that word, I never thought that she ll tell like this.. I am really heartbroken... There are many girls in the world, why did I loved this girl alone.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 10:44 AM
    talaniman

    You just couldn't listen, and do as she asks, just couldn't let her alone for a week, and enjoyed some free guy time. To bad, now she is mad, so leave her alone until she is not, and contacts you.
    Don't make it worse.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 11:06 AM
    rrakesh85
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    You just couldn't listen, and do as she asks, just couldn't let her alone for a week, and enjoyed some free guy time. To bad, now she is mad, so leave her alone until she is not, and contacts you.
    Don't make it worse.

    She said that she is going some where for a job, without informing the place to anyone, I said that I ll search for you for ever, but she replied by the time I find her she might be with kids.I said even though if I see you with your kids, I ll SAY gain that I LOVE YOU "
  • Apr 3, 2010, 12:13 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by rrakesh85 View Post
    she said that she is going some where for a job, without informing the place to anyone, i said that i ll search for u for ever, but she replied by the time i find her she might be with kids.i said even though if i see u with ur kids, I ll SAY gain that I LOVE YOU "

    What in the world is wrong with you!! Does this girl have to draw you a picture? She wants you to leave her alone. I'll explain; You are stalking her, texting, calling, whining, telling her if she leaves you will find her! You sound like a man who is going to have his way no matter what!

    You are too immature to be in a relationship. You also may find yourself hit with an Order of Prorection against you. Ever heard of stalking laws. Ever heard of the law against cyber- bullying. That's what you're doing when you text her these threats of finding her if
    She leaves. She's through with you let it go.

    Note: Text speak is not allowed on this forum. Use full words.:(
  • Apr 3, 2010, 12:33 PM
    talaniman

    How old are you 10, leave her alone.
  • Apr 3, 2010, 12:39 PM
    amicon

    Which part of leave her alone do you have a problem understanding?

    Stop stalking her and get a life!
  • Apr 3, 2010, 09:20 PM
    kp2171
    Buddy...

    Most of us lose a big love along the way. Often, more than one. It happens.

    You get upset. It hurts. No fun. Eventually it gets really boring being heartbroken and you start to move on.

    So... welcome to earth.

    Annnnnd... I guess this isn't so true...
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by rrakesh85 View Post
    i can leave her alone...

  • Apr 7, 2010, 12:27 AM
    rrakesh85
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kp2171 View Post
    buddy...

    most of us lose a big love along the way. often, more than one. it happens.

    you get upset. it hurts. no fun. eventually it gets really boring being heartbroken and you start to move on.

    so... welcome to earth.

    annnnnd... i guess this isnt so true...

    I have decided to leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...
  • Apr 7, 2010, 12:41 AM
    amicon

    Good decision-stick to it.

    Get back to living your own life and be happy.

    Good luck.
  • Apr 7, 2010, 12:43 AM
    rrakesh85
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by amicon View Post
    Good decision-stick to it.

    Get back to living your own life and be happy.

    Good luck.

    Thank you...
    Really you all helped me to come out of this big tragedy... again I thank one and all.
    Where are you from amicon is that your name
  • Jul 25, 2011, 04:40 AM
    anastalhouni
    At the moment I'm in the same situation... what I used to do is calling her for one mint.
    Believe it or not she is calling me now
    So back to what I used to do is calling her and asking how is she couple of seconds without giving her the chance to ask me or telling me anything...
    That's if she answered and usually she answer..
    If she doesn't then LEAVE HER ALONE
    Always put yourself in her position and act accordingly

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