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She broke up with me for a few reasons. A. she needed space. B. she was going through a very stressful time and she just didn't want to feel tied down. C. we were having a few minor arguments. And we broke up, but for the first month or 2 after we were getting on brilliantly but then I cracked and let her know it really hurt me that we weren't together anymore. We hadent talked to each other in about a month and the no contact was working well for me, well by that I mean I wasn't hurting as much but I still could never get her out of my head. I love her so much still and I tried even going with another girl but all I could think off even when I was kissing her was my ex. She is simply all I can think of. But I know I can't have her back.. I am sad very constantly, going out with friends even doing things I enjoy doesn't appeal to me right now. I just can't help but feel I lost the only girl who was absoluetly perfect for me. Some of the fights we had were just pointless and I picked bad times to have them for her. I regret so much but I just know its too late now. I feel totally stupid for taking her for granted for so long. I don't know what to do next.

Breakups are never easy! Your doing the right thing by NC. Space between the two of you is good! No one knows the future, what will happen, maybe it will work out in the long run, or maybe the two of you will just continue to go your own way. Continue to work on you, and good luck. Giving each other space is the best thing right now.

Stick to no contact and give yourself time to heal.

Make sure that you keep busy and distract your mind when you start thinking about her.

Breakups hurt but you will get over it with time and patience.

The hurt is still fresh, and given before you started NC, you still tried everything you could to get her back, and she filled you with false hope.

I think your just getting over the false hope, and still need more time to adjust to your new realization that it really is over. Like being dumped twice.

Hang in there, as what your doing for yourself now, is a great improvement over how you were handling things before. More time is all you need. Don't be discouraged, because you ARE getting there.