Talk to your family. Tell them the effects. But if they are like my family and don't listen, all you can do is avoid it and ignore it

I don't know it's just one of those stupid annoying things they do... ugghhhh I just guess I'm going to have to do something about it... damn it LOL. Yeah Emo Princess it seems like they don't listen that much

You and your girlfriend need to just ignore them. Trust me, I've been through it and still go through it.

However, some of what they say may have importance. Rarely any kid/teen/young adult (or even a full grown man or woman) wants to hear criticizism, but it may be helpful in appeasing them

They just like to and complain about stupid stuff

And how do you react?

Like I said I've just stopped caring what they or anyone say along time ago. The guys at work say I'm a duck, it just rolls off my back like nothing happens LOL

I think that nitpicking anybody for essentially, entertainment purposes, is very disrespectful.

If they had something serious to say, do it in private with the parties concerned, not a family gang-up on one individual, or that individuals girlfriend.

Cheap shots I'd say.

Continue being a duck.

You can avoid what they are saying. But remember that your parents have had more experience than you, they have good intentions, and they have your best in mind, so I would take a listen as to what they have to say, and if anything, maybe even consider it.

If race is the problem, I stand corrected. You need to ignore what they say and not pay them any attention. OR, if you're brave enough, confront them on it.