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  • Nov 11, 2009, 08:47 PM
    tina_tbay

    Well not to get your hopes up or anything but both realtionships I have had turned into longterm relationships I had sex with them within a week of meeting them. But guys that will date you and have sex with u without waiting probably aren't the best guys to go out with in the first place, I learnt that the hard way. Relationships are all about respect and if you want him to respect you you need to give him some boundaries. Next time he texts you ask him to do something else instead like going to the movies or if its late at night tell him to call you tomorrow afternoon and then you guys can hang out etc. I think you get my drift.
  • Nov 11, 2009, 08:48 PM
    tina_tbay

    Oh yeah and depending on what he does then you got your answer right there! Hope all goes well hunny.
  • Nov 11, 2009, 11:11 PM
    2ndTime

    If you are in a relationship where you can't even talk about love, then this is not a real relationship. You need to wake up. If he breaks up with you because you want a real relationship, then he is the loser. If you are afraid to communicate and continually stay in this sexual relationship, you will get hurt much more. If one day he just dumps you because he finds someone else for the sexual fun, what would you do? Before this can hurt you further, talk to him. If his intention is to use you for sex, then dump him and look for someone else.

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