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  • Aug 12, 2009, 11:37 AM
    KARIEMELIA

    "Acting is like sex: you either do it and don`t talk about it, or you talk about it and don`t do it. That`s why I`m always suspicious of people who talk too much about either."


    ... Stringer, that is so not true. At least not in my relationship. We are very open about our sex life and sex happens quite often!
  • Aug 12, 2009, 01:00 PM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by KARIEMELIA View Post
    "Acting is like sex: you either do it and don`t talk about it, or you talk about it and don`t do it. That`s why I`m always suspicious of people who talk too much about either."


    .... Stringer, that is so not true. At least not in my relationship. We are very open about our sex life and sex happens quite often!

    I fear you may have missed the point, in general those that talk consistently or brag about their accomplishments (sexual or other) in a flamboyant or a somewhat obnoxious way, again consistently, are usually less than accomplished.

    But I do not want to start another subject on Adam's thread. :)
  • Aug 12, 2009, 01:19 PM
    KARIEMELIA

    Sorry Adam.. I just kind of saw that quote and wanted to make a comment on it. Sometimes I seem to have ADD, and other days I seem to have the slows!
  • Aug 12, 2009, 01:22 PM
    adam_89

    No problem at all Kari. I understand
  • Aug 12, 2009, 01:26 PM
    doesitgetbetter

    There are days when we all feel bad about our lives or our progress in life. I definitely don't measure up to what others expect of me, yet it is important to let go of that because only u can walk in your shoes and no one else. Do what makes you feel happy and focus on making yourself content. I am not sure what is going on in your personal life but I promise things will get better. Age is only a number and when we are down it can make us feel miserable no matter what stage in life we are. Just hold your head high and start making a list of things to improve your situation. Just take it one day at a time.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 06:25 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Do I even want to know what the medication would cost if I was to be subscribed some?

    Some cost as little as $4 a month, others much more so. Lifestyle changes, for some people, can replace medication.

    Oh, and it's prescribed... not subscribed. ;)
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:02 AM
    adam_89

    Oh, I didn't relaize I did that. I do that a lot and never know the difference.

    I do it with the word sense to, I use the word since instead so please excuse me for my future mistakes, I do know the difference but just a mistake.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:37 AM
    amicon

    How are you feeling today Adam?
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:41 AM
    adam_89

    Well, I had yet another breakdown this morning but I made it through it and I am doing better.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:42 AM
    Stringer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Well, I had yet another breakdown this morning but I made it through it and I am doing better.

    Glad to hear that my friend, you are stronger than you think. :)
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:46 AM
    amicon

    That's good news.one step at the time.do you spend a lot of time outdoors?
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:48 AM
    adam_89

    No, I am trapped inside this dang office for 9 hours except for smoke breaks.

    I do yard work when I get home though. Sometimes anyway.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 08:53 AM
    amicon

    Spending time outdoors even if its only half an hour a day can raise our mood.as does listening to uplifting music.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:18 AM
    liz28

    Hey Adam don't be hard yourself. I know you spend most of your time at work but make time for yourself whenever possible.

    I thought you like to go shooting and playing the role of a cowboy?
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:28 AM
    adam_89

    Yea, I can be a cowboy sometimes. Haha.

    It just seems every morning I will be doing paperwork, the same ol paperwork I do everday and then I stop and start thinking about stuff and have these breakdowns.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 11:02 AM
    talaniman

    Do I understand that feeling well, I couldn't wait for quitting time.
  • Aug 13, 2009, 10:30 PM
    Clough
    Hi, adam_89!

    I just found this thread. You've already received some excellent advice on it!

    If you would like to do them, there are some activities that I like to do with people on this site in order to help them to feel better about themselves and to potentially realize better, their own worth.

    If you would like to know what they are and maybe participate in doing them, please let me know on this thread.

    Thanks!
  • Aug 14, 2009, 05:25 AM
    adam_89

    Well I might go for it Clough.

    What are some of these things?

    I am sure my breakdown is coming sometime soon this morning. Hopefully I can avoid it today.
  • Aug 14, 2009, 07:33 PM
    Clough
    Hi again, adam_89!

    A couple of things that I can think of right now would be to write songs or instrumental pieces and also using art programs so that works could be created for self-expression that could then be displayed on this site.

    I hope that you've had a great day! :)

    Thanks!
  • Aug 15, 2009, 03:30 AM
    adam_89

    Thanks Claugh.

    Just so everyone knows, I made it through yesterday without a breakdown.

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