talaniman is giving you very sound advice.there s no point trying to secondguess this waste of spaces intentions he s bad news.

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2 weeks...

Wow u really give a s@@t about this person after two weeks??

He used you... He doesn't care about you. You were just another chick he was using...

My advice: Get a Life :mad:

If' he's been living under the same roof with her they've been having sex. Relationship or not.


You should seriously just never talk to this man ever again. You're already having complications that you don't want. And whether you like it or not, there is another woman in the picture. No matter what he tells you it is, there's still going to be issues between you two regarding her in the future if you do not look the other way.

A whole two weeks... is it called a relationship in that amount of time?

Basically, what I get from your post is this:
You two didn't want any strings attached
No commitment whatsoever
No thoughts about working toward marriage
And no living together

It was just sex. Sorry but you take all of that away and have sex after 2 weeks... that's all it was. He hasn't had sex with her in 4 years, he needed to get some!

He's a jerk. He has been with a woman for 14 years and no marriage. What? There's your reality check lady, he doesn't want a commitment at all. If he can't commit to a girl after 14 years, no wonder she wants out or is having an affair... wouldn't you?

Just move on. I promise there won't be no heartbreak on either side of this. Two weeks isn't long enough to make that kind of connection that would lead to heartbreak.

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Originally Posted by wth_happened

An update... at first I was not supportive but now I am. I was angry at him because he had not told me he was living with her. Anyhow, once I got over that we decided to not see each other anymore but he would like to talk with me occasionally and asked me if that was ok. Not sure if this is a good idea if he is going to be trying to work on his relationship and why would he want to keep in touch?

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THREE WORDS:DANGER,WALK AWAY!

If you don't walk away RIGHT NOW,you will regret even meeting him.If you continue this poisonous affair,there'll be a time not too far away,you won't even talk about the two weeks in a good way.

Remember the fun YOU had in those two weeks,take that fun and walk away.Dont turn back even when you see him running behind you to get you back.These kind of men do that,just to make you question your decision.They make you feel guilty for turning your back on them,when actually they have nothing to offer themselves.

You'll be getting into BIG trouble.Get out of this.