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Now I'm left without any answers, drifting in the middle of the ocean, and probably not going to trust anyone else for a long time..
So don't trust her either, as given her actions as you described them, she is not trust worthy, reliable, considerate, or marriage material. Just my opinion, and maybe it was the luckiest day of your life when she called everything off.
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It seems like that's what my ex wants.. Because most normal people who care about someone they loved would not want that to happen...
Blows my mind that you didn't see what she was capable of, but for sure you do now.
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That's why I feel its partially a game... She will not put full closure to things such as calling my family, who bought airline tix, booked hotel, bought dresses for the kids etc.. And apologize to them why this happened.
That blows my mind also and gives me some insights into what you consider civility, and obviously she does. Live with that.
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Its only fair and respectful. If I did this I would def call her family out of respect..
Geez guy, you really are expecting too much here. She ain't like you, and you must have been plenty blind, or in love, or both, not to have a clue about her real nature.
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Also I think it's a game that she can't call to see how I'm doing esp when she knows I didn't want this to end... She can't be that big of a monster can she?
Why should she call you, Mr Civilized, and polished, when the game is to train you to be a loyal obedient puppy. Everything you have written smells of spoiled, manipulative brat, and maybe you're her naïve sucker.
Doesn't matter what she does any more. Man up and do the right thing and vanish fro her life and do your own apology for bringing the biatch into your family's life.
Liz is right, its foolish to expect the right things from her. I know your hurt, but don't be sensitive, or you will truly miss the point.