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Originally Posted by Steve1010

24 hours? what will it accomplish?

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A lot more than the mess you've got going right now.

Will it help or hurt me if I don't answer. The relationship

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

will it help or hurt me if i dnt answer. the relationship

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Help.

But you have to stick to the no-answering thing. Yes, it sounds wrong, but it works soooo well.

Are you a female? How does it work so well if I don't answer. What if she's like I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN BACK W U IF U WOULD ANSWER or says stuff like that. Or tries to make it a serious point to talk to me.. I'm like her only lover/friend, we haven't ever gone a day w.o talking

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Originally Posted by Steve1010

are u a female? how does it work so well if i dont answer. what if shes like I WOULD HAVE GOTTEN BACK W U IF U WOULD ANSWER or says stuff like that. or trys to make it a serious point to talk to me.. im like her only lover/friend, we havent ever gone a day w.o talking

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Yes, I am female and am also a counselor. Don't let her pull your chain. If you are serious about her, don't reply to her at all! Totally ignore her.

When do I answer

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when do i answer

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After 9 p.m. Tuesday evening.

Why 24 hrs though?

Why not? Can you make it a longer time?

Wouldn't she be like, see you don't care your not answaring.

OK, so the shorter the time I wait to text her, or answer her then what? And the longest I take. Like till the weeknd then what?

Isn't she saying that now, even if you answer right away?

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ok, so the shorter the time i wait to text her, or answer her then what? and the longest i take. like till the weeknd then what?

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You would never be able to hold out until the weekend.

I figure 24 hrs is a good time span.

She has all the power now. From what u have heard from my story. Do u think she will be back? Do u think she will continue to play mind games with me? Constinatly saying she doesn't know? Whatwould u do?

I want YOU to get some power. I want you to take off that leash. I want you to not buy into her drama.

She will play mind games if you allow her to do so. YOU have that power.

Will she come back? How do I restore the power

She pushed me around, I then listened to her. She then shut me out.. so do u think she will try to contact me? After she said Don't TALK TO ME ANYMORE

Should I delete her from my Facebook? Should I do something like that? What do I do.. I keep looking at her fbook

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will she come back? how do i restore the power

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Of course she will come back. You will restore your power by taking control of communication between you two.

But one day will let me have it back? Why do uthink she is so confused and changed her mind all the time!