Thanks for all of the replys... yes, this is sure going to take some time but I am going to try to stick it out with her... even if the relationship doesn't end up working out I still want to be friends with her

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Hi my name is Josh, I have been datin my girlfriend roughly about 4 months... the entire time we have been trying to conceive a kid... well one night at her work she was saying to my friends and I that she is showing that she is pregnant... I was so excited.. well later that night after having sex with her she turned to me and said baby do you love me... I knew right then she cheated on me... we had sex on the 19th of July and she cheated on me on the 22 or 23... I find out this Friday the day it was conceived for sure... Ya man I was and still am devistated... but I would do anything for this girl... every realationship before me was an abusive realationship. I am not the type to hit a woman or talk down to for that matter... You can't blame yourself for what happened. They ed up... but I look at it like this, since I wasn't hurting her like she was used to, she had to take matter's into her own hands to hurt me then to feel the consiquences after the matter... dude it's hard as hell and it is still killing me inside to this day, I still have nightmares about it cause I know the guy and he is being a coward and hiding not only from me, but her as well... if you really love this woman as much as you say you do give her a second chance... everything happens for a reason... I am looking at my realationship like this, maybe something drastic such as this had to happen in order for our realationship to become stronger... so try to get past the hatred, depression, anxiety, and all that jazz... and give her one more chance to prove herself...