The original poster has reposted telling us what she plans on doing and I think it the general consesus that we all applaud her new attitude and the actions she plans to take.
I hope she keeps posting throughout what is no doubt going to bea difficult period so we can help her through it.
So happydays make sure you stick strong with what your planning to do. Stick strong. You are better off without this liar and please post here whenever you feel you need more opnions!

Good luck!

Great post here Skell!!

Please let us know how you are doing!!

Let us know if we can help.

You made a wonderful and wise decision. I know it will be hard, but it is in your own best interests!!

Okay, I don't know any woman that would knowingly allow their husband to date another woman while they are still married even if it was "for the kids" as he says. He is hurting the children far more this way then he ever could be with just getting a divorce. One... you need to get a job and stop relying on this man. Two... you've talked about kids but yet divorce from his wife is still not an option? Would that not confuse his other kids? Three... if you are going to continue on with this relationship you need to talk to him about your feelings of him possibly leaving and see what he says. You will never feel like you are worth anything if you continue to put yourself in this situation. Become your own person and then figure out if you really need him in your life or not.