I would also suggest you tell her how annoyed at her you are.
Tell how worried sick you were, thinking she was grieving so bad. :cool:

Tell her you are shocked to find out that the reason she is pushing you away slowly is is because you are 2 inches shorter...

WOW I'm still shocked :eek:

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Originally Posted by ernesto25

Hi all. I am going through a very hard time right now in my relationship with my girl friend. A week ago, i sense that there are some changes goin on by my partner. She is not as sexual as she was, her attitude has changed, she is always telling me that she is tired, and she tries to avoid conversations with me. Her uncle just passed away and in the funeral she was completely ignoring me like if i was not there. She introduced me as her boyfriend but did not talk to me as much. I have asked her if she is unhappy and she keeps telling me no..her only response is that she loves me and wants to be with me. To stop doubting her and not to ask her any more questions. I just do not understand the sudden change? Is it just me or could it be that she does not want to be with me no more and she does not find a way of telling me? If that is the case why would she keep telling me that she loves me and to stop doubting her? Should I not call her at all and let her call me? please help! I am very confused and have no one to talk to.

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She's probably hiding something from you. My "ex" did the same thing and I found out that he was online looking for sex partners..! I KNEW something was wrong, and I was right!

Hey'a peeps! If this man is in a "loving' relationship, he has the "right" to know what is going on in this relationship. I don't get the impression that he is "smothering her" or being possessive or insecure. He just needs to know what's happening with her...this isn't about him - he's concerned for HER and has a genuine concern for their relationship. She obviously can't see the depth of his love for her. If she is keeping something from him and just "stringing him along... " shame on her. But, if she is grieving over the loss of her uncle, she should just say so and stop being so "evasive"... it leads a person to be apprehensive and CONFUSED as this young man already is. She is hurting the relationship more than she is helping it. That's just my opinion. No hard feelings...

Sorry dude but it sounds like she's over you she's just afraid to leave you because she does not want to hurt you. Have you heard that saying if you love them let them go? well that's what you need to do. Or maybe just give her a little space but also be there for her maybe she knew what was coming and that's why she started changing. I wish you the best but try to be patient. LOve is patient. True love waits.