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Originally Posted by amicon

What do you mean by has gone mad? Has she been sectioned? You re split up so it s not your problem anymore.
However if her children have been taken into care it s a tragedy for them.

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No she hasn't been sectioned just getting drunk everyday drinking till she is sick and having all night parties every day.The only reason I am bothered is because I have a feeling it is beacause we have split.

She is an adult and as such is responsible for her own life.
Your concern is commendable but if she s had a drink problem for some time it s her problem not yours.
I hope you have got on with your life and your plans for your future.

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Originally Posted by amicon

She is an adult and as such is responsible for her own life.
Your concern is commendable but if she s had a drink problem for some time it s her problem not yours.
I hope you have got on with your life and your plans for your future.

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Yes I have got on with my plans but this has upset me a lot I still care about her and feel responsible in some way.But I suppose you are right she is an adult and makes her own choices its not my problem anymore.

Just don't know why she has acted like this it really annnoys me.

Many things are annoying-the thing is to move away from that which is no longer our concern.

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Originally Posted by amicon

Many things are annoying-the thing is to move away from that which is no longer our concern.

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I know your right but it is easier said than done sometimes.

I know it is. But whatever feelings you still have for her you need to think of you and your life now.

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Originally Posted by amicon

I know it is. But whatever feelings you still have for her you need to think of you and your life now.

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Exactly and when you do that they seem too come back chaseing you again for some reason.Although this time I think it is for real we will not back toghter again not after this.