Well what more do you need to no to help me

How about you go over to his mums house and have nice romantic quiet night in?

Surprise him with some takeaway and while the kid is sleeping you can watch a nice romantic DVD. You don't need anything fancy to have a good valentines. As long as you are together enjoying each other's company it should be enough.

If you are questioning it there is definitely a problem or some issue of some sort...

I am married and have been with my husband for 10 years...
Of course at first you question things, but after a while you start to see the real true colours in the relationship..

You should just feel it..

How long you guys been toegther?

It's not that easy. You need to tell us specifics. Situations that make you think he does and others that make you think he doesn't. IN DETAIL.

We are NOT fortune tellers in here

We got together 21st November 2007

I give up!

Cause we not met each others family

It not that easy not met his family and I am a shy girl to just turn up on his door step

Everything seems so difficult!

So what... there's always time for the first time...

So do I!

Well my friends say that they can tell he loves me but he sends me three txs yesterday usually he sends over ten txs is this a sign he doesn't love me

But I am a shy girl and wonder what his family would say if they found me in bed with him

I don't think judging by the amount of text messages he sends is a sign of love.

Have you ever been in a long term relationship before??

Am I too leaniant on him friends say I am as I let him go to football instead of spending time with me

Yes but I got hurt by him cheating on me

Oh dear!
You seem to contradict yourself a lot...
If you are that shy why would you jump in bed with him at his parents house!
Enjoy a night of good food and good company and a good talk and a romantic dvd
SELF-CONTROL!

Well you see..
Now he has cheated on you before...

That's why expact2009 was asking for more details...
Instead of a 1 liner sentence

Cause I have been there before but while all his family was away