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  • Jan 23, 2009, 05:34 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by stayc4you View Post
    Do you have some personal vindetta against me? I am sorry if I offended you with my answers or opinions, but I have said nothing on this board that you haven't criticized. In my state that is perfectly legal.



    In your State one party to a lease can be removed from the lease without the consent of the co-signer? What State?

    That is - as I believe I said - most definitely not the law in NY so I am curious to know where this is allowed.

    You have also asked for support in avoiding child support on the legal boards so, yes, I was curious to see what other posts you had made.

    EDIT: I have read the Texas law which appears to be saying that a tenant can be replaced through subletting if the landlord agrees; however, the original tenant remains responsible for rent and damages through the term of the lease and the landlord cannot excuse one party and hold the other 100% responsible - unless the "other" consents. http://www.weblocator.com/attorney/t...html#txc223100
  • Jan 23, 2009, 05:59 PM
    stayc4you
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    In your State one party to a lease can be removed from the lease without the consent of the co-signer? What State?

    That is - as I believe I said - most definitely not the law in NY so I am curious to know where this is allowed.

    You have also asked for support in avoiding child support on the legal boards so, yes, I was curious to see what other posts you had made.

    Why are you trying to get some kind of "feel" for the type of person I am? Well, I'll tell you. I was a single mother from the time I was 17. My son's father beat the crap out of me so I left him. I've struggled my a$$ off through college. I don't believe in handouts. I am a woman who believes that women's rights are deminishing a man's rights. I think our laws and our rules governing the people in this country is WAY out of hand. I don't believe that you have to step on other people to get what you want, but sometimes people force you to do it. I want to protect my family. My husband works his a$$ off to support us and I don't think that a stupid lazy woman who believes that she doesn't have to work for a living should be entitled to my husband's hard earned money. I am old fashioned and believe that children should be raised to be respectful and obedient. If you think that I am wrong for any of that, wait 20 years when all of these kids who are completely out of control are running our country and see what happens. I see people taken advantage of by other people and our laws every single day and it disgusts me. And I live in Texas.
  • Jan 23, 2009, 06:18 PM
    liz28
    [QUOTE=stayc4you;1504312]

    I must say you been through a lot so stay strong. Maybe you should start a thread about your situation on the relationship board because you have a lot on your plate and you can always talk about it here and get great support and feedback. Sometimes getting things out your chest does wonders. I be waiting for a thread from you because I have a lot to say.
  • Jan 23, 2009, 06:21 PM
    liz28

    To the OP, I read this thread in it entirely and agree with the other members that you should give her hell.Are both of your on the lease or only you?
  • Jan 23, 2009, 07:30 PM
    stayc4you
    [QUOTE=liz28;1504338]
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by stayc4you View Post

    I must say you been through alot so stay strong. Maybe you should start a thread about your situation on the relationship board because you have alot on your plate and you can always talk about it here and get great support and feedback. Sometimes geting things out your chest does wonders. I be waiting for a thread from you because I have alot to say.

    Thank you for your support and confidence :)
  • Jan 24, 2009, 07:58 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by stayc4you View Post
    Why are you trying to get some kind of "feel" for the type of person I am?



    Checking other posts is not, in fact, unusual and oftentimes results in a "greenie" for the person who has done the checking.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1500603
  • Jan 24, 2009, 08:15 AM
    talaniman

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by stayc4you https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_i...s/viewpost.gif
    Why are you trying to get some kind of "feel" for the type of person I am?
    To give you good advice and make informed suggestions, we need as much info and insight as possible.
  • Jan 24, 2009, 08:21 AM
    stayc4you
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    To give you good advice and make informed suggestions, we need as much info and insight as possible.

    Yes I am sure that is very true. :)

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