Originally Posted by
jmw0713
I've heard the "we are at different points in our lives" thing before. That was one of the first signs that I should have noticed when my ex was looking for a way out. I didn't take that into account and a year later we were done... After a lot of BS and drama. It wasn't very fun.
I think she is trying to tell you in the nicest way possible that it's over. She is moving away and putting physical distance between you and her. That, and the fact that she is unwilling to wait for you, is an action that speaks volumes about your situation. Her words contradict this because her emotions are getting th best of her, like they do for everyone.
I agree with Tal, I think it's time to make a clean break before things start really going down hill. Better for everything to end before someone feels betrayed. That's when the real pain comes.