Hey Hardtimes,
I think what you should be thinking and saying is the more you talk here- the better it is for you to empty your heart and chest and the better you will feel. The feedbacks you will get on this site will be non judgemental and the many different and varied thoughts from many folks here will help you see things/ problems in a better and different way. You will be more open with your thoughts and will be happy to discuss whatever is on your mind. Eventually your problem will become smaller and smaller and one day it will disappear!

So I think the more you talk- the smaller the deal becomes :-)