Originally Posted by Wildcat21
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh - this reminds me of the gal I had been dating and what brought me to this site. it turned out all she did was listen to her friends about her relationship....and EVERYTHING I did was wrong to them....it was either TOO MUCH or I DIDN'T DO ENOUGH!!! - to her friends.
AND one of the guys was gay!!! She was taking strong advice from a gay dude - WWHO IT TURNED OUT DIDN'T WANT HER TO BE HAPPY AY ALL.
That's one thing - you take advice from friends and they may not always have your best interest. This gay guy, and they are no longer friends, and they worked together....enjoyed seeing her unhappy - it was a control thing.