I always wondered how you ended up here wildcat!

Oh yughhh I hate girls who listen to their friends , as if they have no mind of their own!! exactly most of them(apart from the few good ones) don't have your best intersts at heart at all and just want a bit of gossip!!

Me too. And it's a huge issue in relationships. There are a lot of jaded people out there who do not want to see you happy.

The weird thing is she begged and begged - called - this was last spring. Damage was done.

I am a better man for it though and found someone better.

Ah yes I had that exact problem when we got engaged, so many of them so jealous and etc,one of my 'supposed' friends told me first marriage then divorce, and the others complaining how they would never get maried etc... all negative energy for me.

Of course then the minute that they got the gossip that we were on a"break" they were all there looking for the gossip and giving me terible advice that I did not ask for.

This has been a good time for me to sort out my "real friends"

<<I am a better man for it though and found someone better.
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Great for you!!

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Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh - this reminds me of the gal I had been dating and what brought me to this site. it turned out all she did was listen to her friends about her relationship....and EVERYTHING I did was wrong to them....it was either TOO MUCH or I DIDN'T DO ENOUGH!!! - to her friends.

AND one of the guys was gay!!! She was taking strong advice from a gay dude - WWHO IT TURNED OUT DIDN'T WANT HER TO BE HAPPY AY ALL.

That's one thing - you take advice from friends and they may not always have your best interest. This gay guy, and they are no longer friends, and they worked together....enjoyed seeing her unhappy - it was a control thing.

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That’s all right buddy we’re going to work through this together.

Gay friends that give bad advice - Deal breaker.

If you want her back - No contact minimum of 3 months.

Be the fun guy. Don’t get too serious. Girls hate that.

There are so many pitfalls in relationships... this is one we don't even cover here... and I quite sure happens A LOT!! His/Her friend DOESN'T WANT TO SEE THAT PERSON HAPPY.

So manmy people take great pleasure in seeing someone miserable.

Chuff... too funny!! Hilarious! That was an old gal it turned out we shouldn't have been together.

Hey - I was on the no contact then.

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Chuff....too funny!!!! Hilarious!! That was an old gal it turned out we shouldn't have been together.

Hey - i was on the no contact then.

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See it's working. Trust me I'll have you a relationship expert in no time!

It does work! Believe me.

ROFLMAO! Chuff you are... strange, LOL

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ROFLMAO!! Chuff you are......................................strange, LOL

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Interestingly enough you are not the first one to say that.