"Now he won't take my call" UPDATE
After a little contrariness, I decided to somewhat follow the advice that a lot of the posters offered. I did not want to cloud the other post, so for those that's not familiar with the story, feel free to read "Now he won't take my calls, what should I do."
Okay, on Wednesday, I ate a little humble pie and decided to make contact. Within a 2 hour time, I called 3 times; no answer, his voicemail picked up and I umm, I know, I DID NOT leave any sort of messages, I just hung up. Well, 2 hrs. later, I guess he was in his old mode because he obviously saw my missed calls and sent me a text message of "Hello!" I replied with "Hello, How are you?" to which he replied "Fine. How about you? Not missing me, huh?" After looking like this :eek: :cool: I replied something along the lines of "I am better now. Me not missing you?" You know better! Even if I told you how much I missed you, you would'nt know because that's how much I miss you". To which was the end of that days episode.
On yesterday, I said let's try this again. I called his cell phone twice without any success and bothered not to leave any messages. I sent one text message "Hello, how are you today?" to which he did not respond. I finally decided to call the office because I was so ready to close this suspenseful chapter and I knew I could contact him there. He answered the telephone and I was cordial with how are you, are you busy small talk stuff. He said he was busy working on a report and did I want him to buzz him back to which my response was "if you need to", I made mention of not being able to get in touch with him on his cell he said it had been on silence for most of the day, yada yada he then said I will call you back. He called later talked about projects that he had going on at work. I am going out of state for the 10 remaining days of my vacation, told him that and he said "tell those guys out there that I said you are taken, so don't even think about you" I COULD'NT help it, I really could'nt so I said "Yes, right, like you care, you don't care, you deserted me" of course he said that was anything, but true and again, I NEEDED A SPANKING and that I was trying to desert him. Long story short, he's been very busy at work the past weeks interviewing and hiring for 4 professional positions that we had open to which one of the positions had 96 applicants,for that one position he interviewed 36, screened 12 for the panel and then had to select 3 to go through the final selection process.
We got together for a few hours this morning before my flight. We decided NOT to place blame on each other for whatever had happened, we just had a communication breakdown to which we will avoid in the future. After mutually agreeing to put the past behind and focus on the present, we started the 4th off with a bang, made our own fireworks and it was "EXPLOSIVE", neither of us can wait until I get back in 10 days.
Oh, the question: What are your thoughts? :D
Michelle
