What she really needs to do is stay away from him the girlfriend and the baby. No contact whatsoever. There has been enough damage done.

Well I completely ended things with this guy. I told him that I couldn't do this anymore. Ive already hurt to many people that I should have never hurt in the first place. I tried telling him about this website to come on here and see what everyone has told me but he chooses not to. He knows already what we both did was wrong. He knws it never should have happened and everything was a mistake and I understand that. There is nothing for me to get hurt about because I wasn't in a relationship with him in the first place. With my best friend on the other hand... it sucks... I really don't want to tell her anything. I just want to forget that all of this ever happened. She is getting married tomorrow and she is very excited about it. I am happy for her too. Even though her husband-to-be is a cheat and her best friend which is me is stupid, I don't want to ruin this day for her. I know I should tell her, and that would be for the best, but I can't seem to come out with it.. so I think it is better if we leave things the way they are and I just don't talk to him anymore. I hurt myself so bad through all this. And now I understand the wrong that I did. I was stupid. We both were being immature. But we both have come to realize that all this was wrong. And we both need to continue with our own lives... without each other... the way it should have been since the first day. I was starting to care about him and I know that is bad and so wrong, but he is not mine. I have my own boyfriend to worry about. I know it sucks but one day I will have to come out with the truth. But for now, I don't think the time is right. I don't know what all you guys think about this...

Do you guys think I'm doing the right thing now? That's kind of a stupid question to ask, but I just want to get your insight on this now.

You can't take it back... but you CAN STOP IT

Ok, I'm not blaming you for what happened. But I will say this: What you're doing is wrong, indeed. I suggest you tell both your best friend and your boyfriend (if you're still together) what you've done. I won't lie, it'll probably kill them inside and you may lose both a boyfriend and a friend, but its better to be truthful now than to lie and for them to find out later. Believe me when I tell you, cheaters never prosper. You said that the kiss "felt right". Well, I don't know how long you two have been seeing each other but from what you've posted it sounds like its only been a short time. I suggest you keep as far away from your friends boyfriend so you can lose those feelings for him. Its not right. I hope I've helped.

Good for you. Now learn form this and be care ful who you mess with the next time. Don't mess with someone who belongs to someone else

Hi. Please stop this right now... and it might be best to come clean with both your friend and your boyfriend right now. I just found out that my boyfriend and my best friend hooked up over a year ago. They did it while I was passed out in the other room... actually risking me waking up and finding them. It is one of the most heartless and horrible things that has ever happened to me, and I wish that I would've found out when it originally happened. I don't understand how you can even be contemplating this... is she truly your best friend? I could never even fathom doing something like that to somebody who I even just consider a friend. It's not worth the heartache that it will cause... believe me... take advice from somebody who has been there. :(

My 2 cents. Your best friend has a right to know that she is getting into a marriage with a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater... She might hate you for it, but better then her getting married to find out he has already cheated.

Everyone makes this mistake at least once but look at the dates before you post people! This thread is about 7 months old.

I don't think it's all your fault, I'm in a similar situation, and sometimes love is just F*ed up :(... I mean you know you have to stop, need to stop... but you don't want to stop, you have to do what's right... but don't forget about listening to your heart, I don't know about your whole situation but maybe you guys should just come out with the truth...