Although I agree with everything that Homegirl has said, if you want to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume it is not you (or your relationship) then maybe it is STRESS. This can definitely affect a person's sex drive. If he has experienced a loss or his job has changed or become overwhelming then that could be it. Something is up though and you need to look to him for the answers-

Things is starting to look a lot better, we talked and he understands why I am so upset about this, he has stayed with me all week and we made love 3 times and it was great, I feel that we are getting back to our normal selves again, I have my man back and its great.

Well I wish you two the best. Always keep the communication lines open. Don't assume anything. When you both talk openly and honestly to each other, you will KNOW what's going on.

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things is starting to look a lot better, we talked and he understands why i am so upset about this, he has stayed with me all week and we made love 3 times and it was great, I feel that we are getting back to our normal selves again, i have my man back and its great.

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I'm so glad to read this post of yours. Keep up the courage that you've gained and keep us posted. At least you had a talk and he did not pack his things, so you must have done something right! Way to go!

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Thanks for your answers and questions, I think what we need is to get out more and have abit of fun. But at least we'r on the right track again.

Will keep in touch xo:D