1x is NORMAL.
2x is not inconceivable if the couple is facing obstacles all along.
3x there better be a heck of an excuse.
4x there better be a ring... and some couples therapy - the expensive kind.
5x you better get a full time shrink (or be under 21).

The only person I ever saw this work for was my best friend. She dumped her boyfriend after they dated for 3 months because he was taking her for granted. She did not speak to him for a few months and he was persistent and keep on her. She eventually went back to him and they are getting married.

With that being said it typically does not work and like I said she is the only person I've ever known to have it happen.

PS - if engaged - and she broke his heart (Jane 2019 per chance?) I would say one thing: WHY did she do it? If it is 100% fixed and discussed go on.. if not... it's too dangerous to go back...

I think if you have a long history and it was a good relationship but then something caused your love to leave but then they realized that you were the one all along it can work out. Sometimes people think the grass is greener somewhere else but then see they were wrong.

It depends on how bad I want something and the price you have to pay to get it. Some chances are worth the risk, some are not.

Hi, I like this guy who I contacted but in a silly way anyhow we were talking and he told
Me howI should have just took a chance and how he would have spoken to me.. When we
Met I could tell he liked me by the way he looked at me. Anyhow he keeps going back to
His old girlfriend. A woman who treats him badly. I want to tell him why don't you take a
Chance with me. How do you think I should say it?

Honey,
It is just my opinion, but I've watched you. And, quite frankly you're starting to look like a stalker.
Shouldn't you look for someone who is available and more responsive to your approaches?
I can understand love at first sight and the rhetoric about destiny, but seems to be just not the case.
Live your life, pursue your passions, and you'll find someone, probably when you least expect it. And, hopefully, it'll work for the you both.

I think you would be making a mistake, if he's been going back to his ex... it sounds like the guy is a leech or just can't handle being single...

Hello.

You can't go from one relationship to another and make it work. Think of it this way, if he will dump her for you then how long will it be before he dumps you for the next Girl.

If you're his friend then talk him into pulling away from all dating until he has time to get over her and find himself. Then and only Then can he think about another relationship.

Dennis777