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  • Dec 7, 2009, 01:22 PM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7 View Post
    This is me pretty much me right now. Am I doing okay for 2 months and a half?

    If you feel like you are, then you are. It sounds like you are doing better than before and that is great.

    I hope all goes well with your show. :)
  • Dec 7, 2009, 01:26 PM
    amicon
    Sounds like you're doing lots of interesting things and keeping busy-that's great. You're fine,try not to worry and look forward to a good week-and you've written a song, I'm envious now!
  • Dec 7, 2009, 02:26 PM
    I wish
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7 View Post
    K well around 12:15AM emma (date girl) sent me a text asking where am I and then I told her by the ferry and she said come find me...Well we spoke and it was cool. She also says she wasn't ignoring me but she has been out of it.

    Anyway, I am registering for school this week. I have band practice and we will be playing our first mini show at a house party soon and we have band practice on Wednesday. I made a song up and will be performing it during christmas for the family. I keep going to the gym daily and if its too late I workout at home like last night. I did finish painting and now I have to get mini blinds and glass doors and track lights but I have to find $400 before any of that. I'm excited for that! I prefer staying with family rather than friends for some reasonbut I will hang out with them on Thursday at least just to get out. This is me pretty much me right now. Am I doing okay for 2 months and a half?

    This is more of what's good for you! Sounds like progress to me.

    Keep it up! Keep an open-mind. Be open to doing new things and meeting new people. Leave the past behind you. Move forward with your life.
  • Dec 7, 2009, 04:33 PM
    emopunk7
    I'm get confused. My ex and I didn't trust almost at all and we still lasted almost 4 years. So I don't get it.
  • Dec 7, 2009, 04:36 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7 View Post
    I'm get confused. My ex and I didn't trust almost at all and we still lasted almost 4 years. So I don't get it.

    STOP taking those backward steps Emo :rolleyes:
  • Dec 7, 2009, 06:36 PM
    bswc
    That's the "unaware of importance of trust and communication" situation with both of you. That's why its not significant with you both, but it came in the long run :) Now u're experienced, and raising your own standards! You're not confused emo, just unaware of it... Keep it up bro! You tend to look back all the time, I hope all you act on was improving yourself, not adding the confusion!
  • Dec 9, 2009, 04:13 AM
    emopunk7
    Ok! I have the pictures but I am on my cellphone and I have no idea how to send pictures here on the post for everyone to see. Is there a way?
    I just finished watching 'Law Abiding Citizen'! Awesome movie!

    SONG EVERYONE MUST LISTEN TO! 'Without You' By HINDER!! Listen to it NOW!
  • Dec 9, 2009, 04:27 AM
    amicon

    Great song! Music's a good healing tool.
    Sorry can't help you with the pics,but have a great day!
  • Dec 9, 2009, 06:30 AM
    bswc
    That song is not strong enough for me, I like Owl City, the melody just made me feel on top of the world!
  • Dec 9, 2009, 03:48 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7 View Post
    Ok! I have the pictures but I am on my cellphone and I have no idea how to send pictures here on the post for everyone to see. Is there a way?

    Emo
    Transfer the files from your phone to your PC via USB cable or the like , then follow the below instructions on how to attach pics from your PC onto here:

    A. "Attach" files (including pictures) from your computer. This method puts the attached file below the text of the post.

    Click on an Ask or Answer button to ask or answer a question
    Compose your question or answer in the window.

    Under the window where you composed your question or answer is a section called Additional Options.

    Click on the Manage Attachments button: a pop-up dialog will open.

    NOTE: The Manage Attachments dialog lists the maximum sizes of the various types of files that may be attached.

    Click the Browse button to navigate to the image on your computer and double click the file on your computer: this will return you to the dialog window.

    Click the Upload button.

    Click the link to close the dialog window OR repeat numbers 5 & 6 to attach another image.

    B. "Embed" image(s) from the internet. This method inserts an image wherever you wish within the text of your post.

    Click the Insert Image icon above the posting window: A pop-up asking for the URL will open.

    Enter the URL of the image in the field then click the OK button.
    Source: AMHD FAQ's
    .
    Hope that helps.
  • Dec 9, 2009, 03:52 PM
    jaffeyjoeblaze

    Dude let that broad go... sorry for a lack of better words, no reason to want her back after she did you like that...

    Find a girl who you can trust without any problems... 4 yrs is gone... relationship got stagnant... and she left... I been through it and I'm glad its over because of all the problems we had!

    Move On, NO COMMUNICATION
  • Dec 10, 2009, 11:41 AM
    emopunk7
    Thank you Friend4U! The manage attachmentswasnt working yesterday. I will try again later.

    I recently read a thread stating that her boyfriend is controlling because he wouldn't like that she spoke to guys online and I think to better myself I need to see my own problems now. I remember one time my ex wrote to a guy online during a game of poker on myspace. They wrote back and forth regarding the game and saying lol and a few other things I can't remember... I was kind of bothered mostly because it was a good looking guy. She never spoke to anyone while we were both in a game room together and the fact it wasn't even a girl but instead a good looking guy while she thought I wasn't in the room kind of bothered me. I did mention it to her and she got upset. Yet, she would've gotten very upset if she saw me doing that. So, Is it bad for me to be this way for future references? I want to better myself.

    P.S. my ex sent me a blank email...
    It just says "sent from my palm pixi"
    I don't know if she is showing off her new phone or what but it's the first semi contact from her in 2 months and a half. What's that about?
  • Dec 10, 2009, 11:52 AM
    amicon
    Just talking to people never mind what sex they are while you're playing a game's kind of normal I'd say. I mean we all of us here talk to each other because we've got things in common.. .
    Her email-ignore,ignore and don't think about it. For whatever reason she sent it,remember,silence is golden.
  • Dec 10, 2009, 10:30 PM
    emopunk7
    My ex sent me a blank email after almost 3 months!! Should I respond? What do I say?
  • Dec 10, 2009, 10:33 PM
    friend4u178

    DO NOT RESPOND

    If she wanted to say something to you it wouldn't have been a blank message. So either she did it by mistake , or she did it to get rise out of you.

    Don't get involved with game playing and undo all the progress you've achieved so far.
  • Dec 10, 2009, 11:03 PM
    vanheart

    Dude, c'mon.

    Is that even a question at this point.

    Don't go backwards.
  • Dec 11, 2009, 12:04 AM
    bswc
    Emo, u choosed the right path, the only path. That e-mail is a meaningless act of her, don't even think about it. U must be strong to face the flashbacks and do not break down and step backwards!
  • Dec 11, 2009, 01:14 AM
    emopunk7
    I hate to admit it but since the blank email yesterday I feel like I've lost so much energy! I don't feel like doing anything almost all day! Oh nooooo! I keep thinking of her... little things n how we went on vacations together and I got to sleep next to her and have her anytime and talk and I mostly miss her cute body. I love her asian eyes and face. I was so lucky... now look at me!
  • Dec 11, 2009, 01:25 AM
    amicon
    Emo, don't let this stop you from moving on, I can understand what you're saying but you have a number of good things coming up and a plan for the future so see this for what it was- a blank email meaning nothing.
  • Dec 11, 2009, 02:02 AM
    rockie100

    So a blank message put her back on that pedestal? Just like that? Well, Ya know what Im going to say... CHANGE THE CHANNEL.
    You know,, If she sent it to you on purpose, that wasn't very nice. She knew it would drive you up the wall wondering what it meant...
    Rockie

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