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  • Feb 10, 2009, 10:50 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    If you're up to 30,000 words yet, this is going to become the next Silhouette bestseller. I do so want to see this get published!


    You could just be the lady for the Job Wondergirl ;)
  • Feb 10, 2009, 10:53 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    You could just be the lady for the Job Wondergirl ;)

    I'm going to do it. I was putting it all into Word and then stopped. Will have to backtrack and pick up where I left off, count words, and keep adding more adventures. I love Sneezy's style of writing, and the story just flows like a river.
  • Feb 10, 2009, 10:55 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I'm gonna do it. I was putting it all into Word and then stopped. Will have to backtrack and pick up where I left off, count words, and keep adding more adventures. I love Sneezy's style of writing, and the story just flows like a river.


    LOL... I would like to order a copy please :)
  • Feb 10, 2009, 10:58 PM
    Alty

    I have the tapes, I can give you a copy of them M, but it'll cost you. ;)
  • Feb 10, 2009, 11:01 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
    LOL.....................I would like to order a copy please :)

    I'm not kidding. I PMed him long ago to send it in somewhere. It's too good for a romance novel -- maybe should check into finding an agent. This could be big! Or hey -- I could be the agent -- I know publishers and editors and authors well enough to chat this up.
  • Feb 10, 2009, 11:23 PM
    ISneezeFunny

    I'm seriously considering this publishing thing. WG gave me the idea, and I honestly have no idea how many people will read it... I doubt a whole lot except a few here on AMHD...

    When the war is over, I shall look into it.
  • Feb 10, 2009, 11:30 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny View Post
    I'm seriously considering this publishing thing. WG gave me the idea, and I honestly have no idea how many people will read it...I doubt a whole lot except a few here on AMHD...

    When the war is over, I shall look into it.

    War schmar. I catalog library books for a living. If you could see the el crapo stuff I catalog, stuff that passes for fiction -- not to mention the nonfiction (How to sharpen your concrete saw... ). This Sneezy thing could be the 21st century's Perfect Storm, a very readable advice book memoir for NC -- and we all know how many questions get asked here about that every day!
  • Feb 11, 2009, 01:07 AM
    Dare81
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny View Post
    I'm seriously considering this publishing thing. WG gave me the idea, and I honestly have no idea how many people will read it...I doubt a whole lot except a few here on AMHD...

    When the war is over, I shall look into it.

    I work for a big publishing house, I can probably help you out with the publishing part, if you need any help that is.
  • Feb 11, 2009, 07:18 AM
    Romefalls19

    I am telling you Sneezy, this novel would sell itself! I would definitely buy a copy, only if I can get it autographed by the author!
  • Feb 11, 2009, 07:51 AM
    ardahk

    Incredible - I'm at your stage of taking it chilled and going on dates - good on you mate.

    Come a long way - enjoy
  • Feb 11, 2009, 07:56 AM
    kctiger

    If people are lured in to buying all of the e-books about getting their ex back, I don't see why they wouldn't buy this story... it is amazing and, unlike the e-book, actually does help you out.

    Just wanted to get my two cents in...
  • Mar 23, 2009, 04:05 PM
    none12345

    wow truly insppiring spent the whole afternoon reading it lol. I need something more though. I need to know if NC is really the way to approach my situation. You've come along way man. I wish I can have the confidence you do now.

    Turns out what you wanted in the first place you ended up having it come to you but at that time you didn't need it anymore. Love? What is love? Do you really have love for this women? What is true love? I think things would have turned out differently if that was the case. Good luck! Don't be too mean to her =P I wonder if my ex will come running back to me once I move on as well. Maybe I won't want her back by then. But there is the "other guy" in her life too... sigh
  • Mar 23, 2009, 06:36 PM
    ISneezeFunny

    For me, the other guy was the reason she left me. I was crushed, I was broken, and I was left to pick up the pieces.

    A year and some months later, she came back running. Did I love her? I think so. I thought I'd end up marrying her... so yeah, I think I did love her. Do I think about her now? From time to time, but the nauseating sting isn't there anymore.
  • Mar 23, 2009, 07:54 PM
    none12345

    If she is truly sincere would you take her back? O_O
  • Mar 23, 2009, 08:51 PM
    ISneezeFunny

    Well, my situation's a bit... complicated. Do I love her? Yes, as a person. However, in the course of the past year and a half, we've both changed tremendously. So in that sense, I would have to get to know her again.

    Also, logistically, she's going to grad school in May, about 1200 miles away from here, and I may be going to medical school (if I'm accepted) in August, nowhere near her. So that wouldn't work out. If our paths crossed once again in the future, then I would again have to get to know her once more...
  • Mar 23, 2009, 09:55 PM
    none12345

    Ahhhh. Your situation is pretty inspiring with the no contact. How do you know if you should use no contact or not? If you want check out my situation

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1603532
  • Mar 24, 2009, 07:18 PM
    jiltedgirl

    Hello none12345. I just read your (long) post. I'll keep it short and to the point. People are hardly worth all the time and effort that we end up putting into them. As time passes by, you realize this fact more and more. Just let it go. Don't contact the girl.

    On the bright side, you had a relationship that lasted 5 years, which is amazing and (imo) miraculous in today's society of casual, ambiguous and oftentimes complicated relationships. Good for you!

    Seriously, you're young. You'll find someone, or someone will find you soon enough. Live it up while you can.
  • Jun 23, 2009, 05:46 PM
    wontgohomewou
    Isneezefunny... you're my hero. You've given me so much hope and I love you man.
  • Jul 8, 2009, 04:04 PM
    ISneezeFunny

    Um... I love you too bro?

    Probably the last update I will do before I end this whole thing.

    A few weeks ago, I decided to call my ex and catch up. Things didn't work out and we didn't get to really talk, but a couple of weeks ago, she decided to give me a call... and we talked for about an hour or so. No snide comments, no hurt feelings, no anger, nothing... just a nice catching up between two people who shared something special in the past. We left it at, "hopefully, we'll see each other soon," and I really meant it.

    So with that, I'm going to have to say, my journey with this one specific girl is over.

    I'm leaving for medical school August 9... my restaurant is closed, and I am currently opening up a gas station... so until I leave for med school, I will be busy with the setting up of the gas station. Hope everyone's doing well... wish you all the best.

    Thank you to everyone for your support, and thanks for reading my story. Hope you found it helpful (enjoyable at least). Thanks again.
  • Jul 8, 2009, 04:12 PM
    friend4u178

    Good luck with Med School Sir Sneeze , hope everything works out well for you :)

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